Nacchi

Questioning things should be encouraged | Hoping for a better year

[Nacchi @Gissybee]

All these people talking about leaving Twitter because of Elon Musk... people just love bandwagoning lmao. Just do us a favor and leave then, thanks. But I know they won't.

[Dani. @Danizeh]

Just because Jesus and the Church can forgive, doesn’t mean they don’t have to live with the consequences on Earth.

If a person murders, and repents, Jesus can forgive but they still have to go to prison on Earth for their actions.

So let a woman whore around and let men like us be the white knights she can always come to one day when she’s bored and we should just “forgive”? Are you insane?

What a stupid thing to even argue lol.

And I never said ALL church girls are sluts, but I said many use the religion as a shield to find a man when they’re not traditional.

[𝓓𝓮𝓵 @delonperc]

When an avoidant ghosts you, but you know how psychology works - avoidants don't run away from people they feel nothing for. It’s the exact OPPOSITE: ⤵️

Avoidants don't usually leave because they're bored. They often pull away when the connection starts to matter.

The closer they feel, the higher the emotional stakes become. Vulnerability feels risky, silence feels safer, and ghosting can become a way to avoid emotions they don't know how to process. Sometimes they leave before they can be left, choosing distance over the fear of disappointing someone they care about.

Understanding this can bring clarity, but it doesn't mean you should wait, chase, or accept disappearing acts. Their fears may explain the behavior, but they don't excuse it.

A lot of people say you can't build real intimacy with an avoidant. The truth is, connection is only possible when both people are willing to show up. You shouldn't have to carry a relationship just to feel chosen.

The right connection won't require you to abandon yourself to keep someone else close.

[George Ferman @Helios_Movement]

I am once again reminding you that getting artificial dopamine hits inside non-stop all day is frying your chimp brain more than you dare to imagine.

They can literally cook your entire life.

Heck, in general, if you are depressed, unmotivated, lazy, and even don’t enjoy life much immediately cut out all artificial dopamine hits and go outside.

You might laugh at this initially but give it 3 weeks and you will never look at social media the same.

It’s basic science.
D2 receptors, for example, are susceptible to downregulation from overstimulation, artificial blue light is shown to lead to a 30% reduction of tyrosine hydroxylase-positive neurons in the substantia nigra in many animal models etc.

So you can not live an overstimulating life indoors and wonder why you don’t derive pleasure from anything natural or why you're not driven to create something.

[Tanya @tanyaelisabethh]

Feminism tells women that they are strong enough to run nations, lead armies, build empires, and even walk on the moon.

But at the same time will tell you that motherhood would destroy, and derail you.

Apparently, women are powerful enough to rule the world, just not powerful enough to raise a child.

[𝕌𝕘 🥀 @UgWrites]

Imagine enduring a relationship where you got no affection, no reassurance, no empathy. Nothing.

Imagine complaining about it for years, hoping they’d change.

You go on to endure for over three years.

One day, you finally gather the courage to leave the relationship.

You heal, you move on.
You enter a new relationship.

Then somehow, you become the problem.

The very things you once complained about in your ex start showing up in you.

Why?
You spent so long suppressing your emotions that expressing them no longer comes naturally.

You lived with emotional neglect for so long that you unknowingly learned it.

Now you’re hurting a partner who genuinely cares for you.

And the cycle continues.

My strong advice?
Leave the wrong relationships before they change you!!!

[Nornal Guy 🧙‍♂️ @theralkia]

People do not understand what it means to make a woman feel safe.

She feels safe when you are undeniably yourself. This means you are kind, loving, generous, and understanding. It also means that you are honest (even when it hurts her ego) and steadfast in your authenticity, even when she doesn’t like it.

Because at the end of her day, what she really wants is a man who she can depend on and will be a rock through her emotions, AKA safety.

A lot of men think being loving and kind will turn her off. This is only true if it comes from a place of scarcity and wanting to please her.

[Glenda Varotto @espectrocinza]

“Somente mulheres, crianças e cachorros são amados incondicionalmente, Um homem só é amado enquanto ele pode prover alguma coisa.”

Eu discordo.
Animais são abandonados na velhice e mulheres quando adoecem, enfeiam, engravidam, envelhecem ou vão para a prisão também. Logo, esse amor é condicional. Neste último caso, da prisão, os homens são visitados por namoradas, esposas, mães, irmãs e filhos. Enquanto na situação das mulheres, ninguém nunca mais vai encontrar e muito menos aguardar pela saída delas.

Esta frase inicial é de efeito e não dura com um minuto de reflexão honesta.

[Dear Self. @Dearme2_]

Real.

[sailormercurio @sailormercurio_]

Soy enfermera. Cuando nacio mi hijo deje de trabajar, por sugerencia de mi marido, para poder estar más con el bebé y que no lo dejáramos a cuidado de algún desconocido.
Cuando me di cuenta ya habían pasado 3 años y estaba embarazada del segundo.
Hace meses estuve muy engripada, pero como estaba sola con mi niño que es un terremoto no podía descansar bien.
Un fin de semana en el que estuve engripada mi marido se "encargo" del niño y de la casa, bueno encargarse.. básicamente dejo todo lo que usó en la pileta y lavadora y una vez que me levanté tuve que ocuparme de eso.
Cuando le reclamé, me reprochó que lo único que tengo que hacer es encargarme de la casa y de los niños y que el es quien paga, así que tenía que aceptar que el no haga nada.
De esto pasaron 6 meses ya.
Ahora que mi bebé nació, y coincidiendo que mi hijo empezó kinder, he dejado mi currículum en varios hospitales y geriátricos sin decirle a mi esposo.
Ahora las tareas tendrán que ser a medias, las cuentas tendrán que ser a medias, el cuidado tendrá que ser a medias, o habrá división de bienes y custodia compartida.
Esa humillación me dolió demasiado.

[若餅🌱 @wakawakanomochi]

パン屋
#カービィ

[sydney @squid_bees]

i like when a baby animal is just a shrunken version of the adult animal

[Zach from Uchuu Shelf @uchuushelf]

There is literally a whole anime about why this is a fucking stupid idea and doesn't work.

[𝓓𝓸𝓬_𝔃𝓮𝓮 ✧ @doc_zee7]

Me refusing to sleep because i didn't get enough time to feel like human after work

[Milk & Mocha @milkmochabear]

Every version of you ❤️

[Megha @megha_lilly]

In the story of the Disney film Brave, Merida is a selfish, entitled, spoilt princess. She despises her mother because she her mother wants her to behave with decorum and manners as it is her duty. Merida looks to her own entertainment, whereas her mother guides her to her responsibilities as a future sovereign. The real rift occurs when the Queen tells Merida she must marry the winning Prince of a competition for her hand in marriage. The designers of the movie in typical American feminist fantasy, make every Prince look like a twig, sheep-brained loser (on purpose). In NO UNIVERSE would a wee wisp of a lass beat out grown men in Archery. Zero possibility. Archery is all upper body strength. Unless for some reason every Prince is a complete ponce which is impossible because then their lands would have all been conquered.

Merida runs away in a rage and enlists a witch to get rid of her mother and in a twist of the spell, her mother gets turned into a bear! Such a ridiculous, idiotic plot that has nothing to do whatsoever with the lessons the film could have built to.

The witch implies that reconciliation between the mother and daughter is what will break the spell. A great opportunity for Merida to finally become less selfish right? But this is not what happens. The reconciliation is not Merida recognizing the importance of duty, but rather she makes a speech announcing "everyone should marry whom they choose". It's idiotic modern secular American family badly transposed onto medieval Scotland.

There is a fight between bear mother and real demon bear and then this breaks the spell? Merida learns zero lessons. The whole world of the story just bends to the will of this spoilt feminist self-insert heroine. The aesthetics, animation and music of this film are fantastic. But the story? A BIG FAT L. It is possible to write female heroines with strong wills and free spirits who rally against tradition...but they need to have something virtuous they are fighting FOR. Merida fights for no one but herself. Selfish heroines are empty and vapid. Merida is nothing but a whole bunch of well animated copper curls. Sad. They could have done something so much better with the character and setting.

[Throwing Things Daily @ThrowingObjects]

Chicken Alfredo.

[Deisine @TDeisine]

A woman posted: “My husband cheated, apologized, and I stayed.” The comments were brutal.
“You're weak.”
“You have no self-respect.”
“You're teaching him there are no consequences.”

Then another woman replied: “I left my cheating husband and spent years struggling financially with three children.” The comments were brutal too.
“You're bitter.”
“You should have worked it out.”
“Children need their father.”

That's when I realized something. People judge women whether they stay or leave.
So maybe the real question isn't “What will people think?” Maybe the question is: “What decision can you live with?”

[Gia Macool @GiaMMacool]

Women correct and nag men like they’re children constantly and I rarely hear a woman call that bad behavior out.

It’s wildly convenient how women ignore their own glaring double standards, then flip a man’s natural guidance and leadership into “control.”

One is “nurturing.” The other is suddenly “toxic”

The hypocrisy writes itself.