No version of a woman is more pretentious than a woman who’s looking for a husband. On one hand, I empathize because of their nature and nurture. On the other hand, it’s scary. People know what’s right, but they only pretend to be it.
Scary.
Whereas, she doesn’t want to have that conversation with you or be accountable for what she did. If you’re weak and emotional, she will pull out that DARVO on you so fast, you might start explaining and defending yourself.
Dead man, the choice is yours.
A woman like this will kill you, as a man. You can’t love any woman who does this. She will kill you.
She doesn’t want to have that conversation, but will get the ick and see you as weak if you keep leaving the conversation ‘un-had’ or keep ceding because she cries.
My husband watched me cry for 47 minutes last night and didn’t hug me once.
Me: “So you’re really just gonna sit there?”
Husband: “Yeah.”
Me: “While I’m crying?”
Husband: “Yeah.”
Me: “Wow.”
Husband: “Are you ready to answer my question?”
Me: “How can you even care about that right now?”
Husband: “Because that’s why we’re having this conversation.”
Me: “You see your wife crying and all you care about is being right?”
Husband: “I didn’t say that.”
Me: “You don’t gotta say it.”
I started crying even harder.
He still didn’t move.
Me: “You used to comfort me.”
Husband: “I did.”
Me: “So what changed?”
Husband: “I noticed something.”
Me: “What?”
Husband: “Every time I bring up something you did, you cry.”
Me: “Because you hurt my feelings.”
Husband: “Last month I asked why you told your sister something private about our marriage.”
Me: “And?”
Husband: “You cried. We spent an hour talking about my tone. Never discussed what you told her.”
I went quiet.
Husband: “Before that, I asked why you spent $2,800 from our savings without telling me.”
Me: “You yelled.”
Husband: “I didn’t yell.”
Me: “You raised your voice.”
Husband: “And somehow we spent that whole night discussing my voice instead of the $2,800.”
Me: “Okay, but you made me feel attacked.”
Husband: “Then there was your ex.”
Me: “Oh my God.”
Husband: “I asked why you were texting him at midnight.”
Me: “It wasn’t like that.”
Husband: “You cried before answering.”
Me: “Because you accused me of cheating.”
Husband: “No. I asked why you were texting him.”
Me: “Same thing.”
Husband: “No, it ain’t.”
That’s when he said something that really got me.
Husband: “I finally realized your tears end every conversation you don’t wanna have.”
Me: “So now I’m manipulating you?”
Husband: “I didn’t say that.”
Me: “That’s literally what you’re implying.”
I started crying again.
He looked at me for a few seconds.
Husband: “See?”
Me: “See WHAT?”
Husband: “We were supposed to be talking about you lying to me yesterday. Now we’re talking about whether I’m a bad husband because you’re crying.”
I ain’t even know what to say.
Husband: “You’re allowed to cry. But we’re finishing the conversation after you’re done.” ................
Whenever a woman says she wants something that is an obvious result of a cognitive dissonance that only experience can unveil, you need to let her defend it, experience it, hate it and learn her lesson. She probably won’t say you were right, but let time teach her.
Equality, till they realized equality meant a complete evaporation of all their privileges under the patriarchy. So leave this one. Let her go be with the feminist man. Body go tell am.
Exhibit H: Women have no idea what they want. They subscribe to these ideas, that in reality, are far from what they want.
A woman might convince herself that she wants a ‘feminist’ man, but when he starts showing the liberal tendencies, she will develop contempt and ick for him
It’s the same with how they want ‘feminism’ and ‘equality,’ but in reality, they still want the benefits of patriarchy. It’s such cognitive dissonance but I can’t call it dishonest, because most of them don’t know these things till they find out, just like they all ran towards
Women don’t get turned off by dangerous men. They get turned scared of men who are a danger to them. A dangerous man is a powerful man, probably dominant too. Nothing makes a woman more submissive than that.
Your wife won’t get un-wet or scared by the fact that you can kill someone. She’ll get wet if she knows you will do whatever it takes - especially if it’s to protect your family and further your goals. She will, however, get the ick, if she feels you won’t kill for her.
The fact that men accept the reality where if they go broke, their wife/girlfriend will leave them, is a reason why men can’t take modern women seriously.
Liberalism and feminism didn’t take away the woman’s traditional desires and expectations of a man. Modern women tried to deny that those traditional desires and expectations didn’t exist when they stupidly tried to enforce “equality.” Then they realised and accepted.
It’s just funny to watch them battle between ‘feminism’ and their natural ‘traditional’ state of womanhood. You can’t outrun what God intended you to be. God isn’t stupid for structuring the world how he did. You might how hate what human excess has created oppression.
You’re making those videos because your natural femininity is desirous of what your current state of womanhood isn’t prepared/mechanised for. But you can’t outrun the natural dictates of your femininity.
The choice is yours.
Dear modern woman,
You don’t need your friends to embarrass themselves making “Why is Ronke single” compilations for you, to pretend-announce that you’re single.
You don’t need video confessions.
Learn what men need and don’t want.
Especially when it comes from women who have nothing that men want and have no desire to become it because they think not wanting it makes them powerful and non-conformist.
Men will only want to fuck you, if you’re beautiful. Don’t pretend, become it.