Dating for data starts with friendly interrogation and I say friendly because I want to make certain that you understand this is not a situation where you move into it with this hard stern energy.
If you have to act for a person to develop an interest you're going to have to act for that person to maintain an interest and the reality is no one can act 24/7.
People are dating instinctively and not cerebrally, this is why we have so many failed relationships, this is why we invite people into our lives that we should have never even stopped to have the conversation with,it is because we are not employing anything cerebral.
Never ignore or sweep under the rug or look over the counsel of those who have proven to love you, because the council of people that love you is not always what you want to hear.Proverbs 11:14, Proverbs 27:6
You got to stop ignoring fruit,if apples are hanging on the tree is an apple tree.If lemons are hanging on the tree, I don't care how much you pray, it's a lemon tree.
You must never ignore or look over cycles that are consistent.
Cycles are testament to character.If I'm constantly lying to you I'm just a liar,a liar can't break out of the cycle of lying.Jeremiah 13:23
You must never ignore the energy or the spirit of a person.A person may very well say all of the right things,they may even do all of the right things,but if that person's spirit does not agree with yours you must never ignore.Act 16:16-18
The person that learns from his or her experiences is happy , the person that learns from the experiences of others is wise,but the person that learns from neither is a fool.Ephesians 6:18
Vision requires daily commitment when inspiration fades, pray for the consistency to take small faithful steps.Ask for strength to establish Holy habits.