You know that the drain was truly big when you still haven’t received your payout because it’s too big and they don’t know wether to break it down or to send it fully
i think both subs and dommes should remember as much as the fantasy is to have subs drain their entire account, that these are real life people. sometimes with families etc. and in this specific d/s relationship, subs will trust us with their finances and sometimes will try to go way further than they can afford. i always make sure they're atleast left with something in case of an emergency. that last $20 or that $50 wont a make a difference for me.
Subs always say they want a genuine connection and a domme to actually enjoy it. But are you ready for this?
Are you ready to put your needs aside and to establish a connection first? Why would I care for a stranger? Why would I care for someone who doesn’t cater for my desires at the first place?
I have zero interest in my subs staying home, jerking off and losing confidence.
No. You will go to the gym, will have nice hair and clean nails, get more ambitious at work, set goals and read books. I want my men confident, handsome and happy. Why would I like someone who’s less than that?