I ask them not to do certain things they do what they want. Again this is me telling on what is going on around me not me what I want or what I am trying to manifest.
Where I am, I say please clean your messed up and I have to ask every single time. They don’t learn and do better. I don’t like going into my kit gen to see their mess. If I was someone else’s house I believe I almost always helped with the dishes or did the dishes