Some little things about me 💅
🔹️New to this space. NOT a new Domme
🔹️ ♏️
🔹️ I prefer lace over leather
🔹️ been a soft pleasure domme for 5+ years now. Iykyk
🔹️Subs are welcome. Sugar daddies are not. Know your place
🔹️AV ✔️
This is pretty much why I keep to myself. That and whenever I try to engage normally I get "omg this domme is gonna SUB for me" which gives me the ick when I just wanted to let you know your lingerie was 🔥
This space is weird.
The amount of Dommes on here who are just constantly shit talking other Dommes, complaining about those who care about being ethical, complaining about what other Dommes wear, how much they (think they) do or don’t make, constantly involved in drama, saying nasty things about women in general, is absolutely disgusting and annoying. It’s honestly why I mostly keep to myself as far as the community is concerned.
I remember being so excited to come into community with other women in this industry, but slowly the ugly side of the Domme space started to rear its head. Group chat drama, constant Domme bashing in posts, the whole “Faildomme” narrative, saying Dommes who show less are somehow better than those that choose to show more, and that the former means they’re not doing SW. It’s all just so ugly.
And to be clear I’m not talking about bringing awareness to genuinely horrible people in this space. Those people deserve to be called out. I’m talking about the high school gossip and bullying energy. Not cute.
Men are basically working line dogs. Sure head pats and praise will do it for most but if you dont give them a job they will fuck your couch and cause problems.
This is a public service announcement for all of you that feel entitled to not give age verification…
I don’t give a fuck about you.
Claiming you value privacy is not a good enough reason for you to not verify you’re of legal age, before approaching a SW.
I literally just need to verify your birthday.
I’m not asking you for your fucking government file or your social security number.
I cannot be asked to give a shit about that.
I’m asking you to verify that you’re not a minor.
It is not rocket science.. and it is ABSOLUTELY required before you approach me.
Yoti allows you to select what details are shared.
If you refuse to age verify… I have two assumptions, and there is no in between.
1. You’re not of legal age.
For obvious reasons… THIS IS A PROBLEM.
2. You’re too lazy and you want a quick reward. You just want me to do the work for you.
Once again… this is a problem.
You’re not the kind of submissive I want serving me.
You demand this, that, and the other from me in terms of verification… but YOU refuse to do the bare minimum?
No way.
I'm not performing because you can't properly vet your play partners. If you get catfished that's on you & I really don't care how you feel about it.
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