A bottom wants a physical, sensation experience.
A submissive wants to surrender to a temp power exchange with boundaries, where they are in service. Scene ends w safe words.
A slave has negotiated a full time, 24/7 total power exchange, only basic needs are met. No safe words.
If his legs are spread far enough apart his cock can rub the bed as you fuck him in the ass, and this can cause him to come. Such an orgasm can be humiliating for him - it will seem to him as if he came from anal play alone.
Tease him about how much of an anal slut he is.💋
Abandonment is the most common type of ruined orgasm. All you have to do is stroke until the point of no return and then let go. If done correctly, semen squirts or dribbles out without orgasm. This method is best for a long and frustrating tease and denial session.💋
Pegging Tips For Him💋
1. It’s important that you don’t give all the responsibility of your fantasy to your partner. Understand your limits and experiment with butt plugs and/or dildos.
2. Be involved in the purchase of the harness and dildo and start small.
3. Help your partner
Oral Sex Done Right: Eat Her Like an Apple
She faked it for 11 years. He thought he was doing a great job.
He learned everything from adult content. What he didn't know is that rapid flicking doesn't create pleasure — it creates sensory overload.
The clitoris has 8,000 nerve endings in a space smaller than a pencil eraser. Attacking it fast numbs it out completely.
The fix is called the Apple technique. Lips curled. Seal created. Gentle suction. Steady rhythm.
Draws blood into the tissue instead of rubbing it raw. Pressure becomes pleasure instead of pain.
And then there's the hum. A low steady sound from the back of your throat while maintaining suction turns you into a vibrator. No batteries required.
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