I took myself out the mix. I'm getting my life together, keeping my circle small, learning on keeping my things private. just also trying to accept some situations the way they are.. and also staying in my lane not bothering anyone. MAINTAINING PEACE ALL 2024 💕
THINGS I’M NO LONGER APOLOGIZING FOR:
- My feelings.
- Having boundaries
-Saying NO to something I’m not interested in doing.
- Not answering the phone when I can’t or don’t feel like it.
- Taking a break
- Asking for clarity when I don’t understand
- How other’s behave
- Changing and becoming better
- Putting Myself first
- Not settling for less than I deserve
- Letting go when I need to.
- Healing at my own pace
❤️✊🏾🧗🏾♀️
PSA: YOUR KIDS COME FIRST!‼️‼️‼️‼️They come before your Bf/Gf . They come before your friends. They come before partying. They come before drugs/alcohol. They come before your job. They come before money. They come before your car. They come before your own selfish wants, needs, desires, dreams. THEY COME FIRST POINT BLANK PERIOD!
girl to girl: it's okay to be alone. it's okay to have a dry phone. it's okay to be celibate. it's okay to be selfish. it's okay to have high standards. your peace, your pace, your rules
Everybody wants to be toxic soo bad & I'm over here trying to unlearn every toxic trait in me. I don't wanna argue, be disrespectful, act cold, match energy, or question love. I want to be gentle, accountable, and supportive. I literally crave a soft peaceful life ✨💕
Stop letting people consume you. They didn't call? Go to sleep. They didn't message you? Put your phone down and have a better day. They left you on read? Delete the conversation. They didn't make an effort? Match their energy. Never let your happiness depend on anyone.