It just saddens me to be talking with people and learn just how outright abusive and toxic dommes have been to them... Guys, aftercare is non-negotiable, it is a very crucial and important part of a session.
You should feel good afterwards, not beaten.
Can we talk about aftercare for Dominants? Because there’s so much discussion about subdrop, but being the person responsible for leading an intense scene can be emotionally and physically demanding too. Sometimes the Dom needs reassurance, affection, or a little decompression afterward. That’s worth talking about.
@Katieemayee Guess what? I dont give a fuck yes im a goddess bitch i do what i want i dont need to prove shit to people like you who dont know how to read thank you ima go enjoy being spoiled