A terrifying number of modern women do not actually possess independent thought; they just download their relationship boundaries from the TikTok herd. You will literally watch a woman destroy a peaceful, healthy relationship with a good man because a viral video with a trending audio convinced her that him not texting back in 5 minutes is a "narcissistic red flag." The herd mentality has completely replaced critical thinking with collective sabotage.
These are the black men in the dating pool that a large majority of black women will pick over a decent good black guy and then turn around and use those severe character flaws of that man to describe every black man they interact with.
I haven’t smoked weed in a year officially. I just got to a point that as a man if I can’t face anxiety, problems, etc… without weed then I’m not mentally strong enough.
I served the army from 18 years old to 24 and didn’t smoke that entire time so I know how it feels to be an adult sober… started smoking the DAY I got out. March 2020… stopped smoking May 2025.
I can’t say weed slows you down because I made multiple 8 figures high af and actually had a blast. If I’m being honest life with weed is a lil more turnt. I’ll admit.
But I gotta relearn how to be turnt without. Which I’ve been doing. It’s a journey. So far so good.
there’s a point in your 30s when you realize hosting BBQs and dinner parties is the new club scene and high key better without the randoms, overpriced drinks, and terrible DJs still playing Dreams and Nightmares