@i2vampyre@wetfIowers And also these things can happen while in the relationship, anxious people start putting too much emphasis on you and you can reassure them atleast, but being ignored by someone you love and them pushing you away and not communicating is a different level of hurting your partner
@i2vampyre@wetfIowers People are more susceptible to accept someone with anxious attachment because atleast they know like them, but avoidants lack the ability to be communicated with, and no healthy person should entertain either but most of the time theyre not gonna tell you they are
@kingthebearr@fluffykittytime You can be a man without being masculine but youโll definitely struggle a lot more because even non-masculine men struggle with male socializing (mostly cause the average man is pretty weird)
@Anonymo06950671@_autophage I think everyones a little bisexual so id say weโre right where weโre supposed to be but society doesnt let everyone be themselves
@dwecayedgirl@boozfwl Maybe for you and itโs definitely dependent person to person and how you feel about it, but I think most people would say an avoidant is worse to deal with, and no its not a competition, just atleast with anxious people you can communicate and reassure them, but avoidant you cant