someone said "if you don't let people experience the consequences of their actions towards u, you will remain a safe place for their worst behavior" and I couldn't agree more
this man on tiktok said “youcannot repair a relationship with a man who believes the problem is always your reaction, never his behavior” and that’s real shit.
im in the season of becoming a better woman- not just with how i look, but in how i think, feel & carry myself. i want a clear mind, a peaceful heart & a spirit that feels light again. i just pray God continues to remove anything in the way of my growth and peace.
I want money for the comfort it brings, for the respect it commands, the problems it solves, for the ease one enjoys from having it. God bless me with money 🙏🏾
Girls, please PICK THE GENTLE ONE. The kind one. The one who brings you peace. The protective one. The one who is sure of you. The one who respects you. The one who understands your silence. . The one who sees your heart without judgment. The one who holds your dreams with care.
Men have this quiet sabotage phase when they’re done emotionally but lack the courage to say it. They start acting distant, or oddly indifferent, waiting for you to take the hint and walk away. Then they tell everyone, “She left me,” as though they hadn't orchestrated it.
I love how we watch the moon disappear and do not panic, because we know it will return. And when it does, it comes back fuller, brighter and more beautiful than before. I've always wanted to be like that, to return stronger each time I am seen again.
When someone dies, the most painful tears aren't the ones you cry immediately after.
They're the ones you cry when you begin to grieve their absence in random moments, their smells, their laughs, their voice, and the inability to create new memories with them.
A cheating boyfriend becomes a cheating husband. A lying boyfriend becomes an untrustworthy husband. It’s called SEE-SAW, what you SEE in marriage is what you SAW in the relationship. If he’s not a good boyfriend, he won’t be a good husband.
Im a little behind on where i wanted to be in my life right now but the universe is tailored in my favor and everything i want will be mine. ❤️ all in due course.