@magpieluvr And another thing. Paying attention to someone's looks is part of getting a first impression of someone. You make "judgements" of people, regardless if it's positive/negative. That's a completely normal thing.
@magpieluvr Nah I need to say something about this. Whenever anyone says something like "I only date based on their personality" is absolutely full of shit. Everyone (including me) is hella fucking shallow to a certain extent. They're obviously not gonna up front about it cause of their rep