Peace on earth is just shutting the fuck up. Dont rush. Letting that car merge. Sharing the arm rest on the plane. Letting unc put his numbers in…
Just chill. Fuck it.
There is no finish line
Let it happen
I think our elders didn’t do a good job at modeling how friendship changes from adolescence/young adulthood to 30s and beyond. A lot of us think friendships are supposed to look & feel like they did when we were in high-school & college. & thats just not realistic.
once you turn 20 you have to fight everyday for the rest of your life to not lose your personality & spirit...bc what once came naturally to you will be exhausted into nothing if you don't actively Try. it's terrifyingly easy to become a lethargic, soulless adult
The moment ppl accept this for what it is the moment you can just enjoy it as stress free entertainment. The only difference from pro sports and pro wrestling is that they aren’t fully scripted, the players & talent still have to win you the game but it’s officiated to make it easier for desired outcome.
Once billions of dollars are attached to outcomes, expecting perfect purity is naive.
If you meet a girl and ask for her name, don’t tell her yours immediately. Let her ask.
If she doesn’t care enough to ask your name back, she’s probably not interested. Keep it moving.