@Curiousx10 It really depends on the partner. Sometimes I can intuit why someone's bratting and how to respond, but some people are unique in their needs and their expectations really need to be explicit
In a better world, trans women wouldn't have to pay cis women literal hundreds of dollars an hour just to have a safe space to wear makeup. How about you work on building that would while we take care of our own ๐คทโโ๏ธ
If you're cis, you shouldn't be taking trans clients until you've at least offered to refer them to a trans provider, especially for scenes that focus on gender exploration. You're not qualified, unless the client knows they have options and has specifically chosen you
I'm tired of cis, conventionally pretty, white european dommes going on articles and talking about how they've helped some trans woman feel feminine for the first time. Our vulnerability and personal triumphs aren't your publicity.
If you've sent me a dm with questions about a session, and you're waiting on a response, message me through my website or via text instead. I don't respond here. Nice little hellos are fine though and I appreciate them when respectful
I'm less than a year into my pro domme career and I already have less than zero time for those who don't prove their worth to me upfront. Amuse me or send, or be ignored. And no, assuming you have any right to even be near my divine body before you've earned it does not amuse me.
Just turned someone down for insisting she needs to *not* have a safeword because she deserves to be seriously hurt. While it's not my place to judge what you feel you deserve, it is my place to decide whether or not you're ready for it.
Certain kinds of CNC experiences (which are inherently risky) can only be had without a safeword - but only one you've had years of practice building your dynamic and learning to read each other