If you wish to remain resourceful and maintain your integrity, learn to respect and protect the people you have access to. Do not burden them with trivial matters. Do not constantly call in for favours. Guard that access carefully and use it sparingly, thoughtfully and only when absolutely necessary. Ironically, the more respectful you are of a person’s time and position, the more willing they become to assist when you genuinely need them. The goal is to cultivate relationships built on mutual respect rather than relentless extraction. Respect people so much that when your name appears on their phone, they know it matters. Respect them so much that when you call, they are willing to drop everything and take your call.
Night school class dismissed…
Andrew Tate reveals certain WARNING SIGNS in people that tell whether they would BETRAY you. 😳
"If I'm with a guy and he complains he's hungry and there's no food? And I said, We'll eat later."
"And then he spends the next 3 hours b*tching about being hungry. I get a red flag."
"If I see dudes who are desperate to get laid all the time, desperate for women, that's an even bigger warning sign."
"A starving man will do anything for food. That's the guy who tries to talk to your girl." 😱
Dating sucks, right?
“The men aren’t catching up.” Right?
“The men want to be chased.” Right?
I understand where that comes from, but what people aren’t mentioning is how feminine the modern world is in general.
Materialism at its core is feminine. Lusting after money and being in a constant state of desire is feminine.
Convenience is also feminine. Nothing requires effort anymore, because you can get anything you want at the click of a button. It’s not just porn that’s convenient. It’s all forms of labor. Everything is a swipe away. Going to the gym is the only stereotypically masculine thing most men engage in these days, and that’s pushing it because even building strength can be performative.
We’ve created an entire society catered towards feminine energy. Masculine energy is rare because there’s no need for it with where we’re headed. (Some would argue there’s never been a need for it, but that’s a different story.) And they castrated Black men a long time ago, so I’m not sure why we pretend like that issue doesn’t need to be unpacked separately.
Don't know who needs to hear this: Staying in something out of politeness eventually turns into resentment. Leaving kindly is far more respectful than staying half-hearted.
A clean "No" is a gift, a lingering "Maybe" is a burden.
Staying half-hearted is unfair.
~ Saturn 🪐