i genuinely think one reason more women are choosing to stay single is because the internet has given us a front row seat to how some men actually talk about women. it’s hard to romanticise men when you can constantly see what some of them say about women behind closed doors.
Until you experience a genuinely generous man, you may never understand how naturally a man who truly loves you wants to pour into your life. Not just with money, but with his time, effort, attention, support, and consistency. When a man values you, giving to you doesn’t feel like a burden it feels like a privilege.
i really hate the type of person that secretly resents you and builds up all these negative opinions about ur character then waits until an argument to unload everything they’ve apparently been holding onto for a very long time!!
They’ve been saying this about black women for decades. Get a grip. Y'all DID NOT care when bw were called ugly, undesirable, aggressive, unmarried, and unlovable on all media platforms.
Last thing and I'm done. Blk men can attack Blk women all day every day and you never hear a peep from the blk community saying, let's stop bashing, let's not feed until the division etc. Soon as bw come for them back, the male centered blk community attacks them.
@TacosTacos55078@BohemianDiva99 Those who have half a brain cell can see these are individuals trying to cope with the fact that black women are moving on without them. Constant negging and criticism will not work. Black women are over them, and now they feel it.
I used to wonder why people cried during proposals, weddings and their love confessions but now I get it. The thought of having someone love you for you, being there for you no matter what, making you happy, having someone to share this brutal life with, together makes me tear up
I love when in real life men see they being plotted on or liked only for surface level shit and rise above it and don’t fall for the okie doke. I hate a weak ass man who whole life revolve around feminine attention. I see them as losers. So this scene made me smile.
There is a new dating show on TV and every Black man who appeared on the show had one deal breaker 'no-to-Black-American-women'. These self-hating coons chasing White women.
@blackdovewings I’ve always seen this. They’ve been upset that Black women with White men are seen as a better paring than BW/BM relationships. Honestly, its BW & BM’s fault. Optics wise, BW/BM relationships dnt look appealing or aspirational. There’s more often than not struggle attached to it.
Black women are more upset at black women liking white men than THEY HAVE ever been about black men liking and disrespecting them for white women…this some male centered ass shit