Fahim Faruq

I'm on a mission to help Muslim men forge their rujula (since 2013).

Become a rajul, lead your marriage, master wife-vetting & getting, & embrace brotherhood.

[Fahim Faruq @GreenPillCoach]

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[Fahim Faruq @GreenPillCoach]

@CountAtlas Baraka Llāhu fīkum. Most of these braying donkeys would fold face to face and won't learn without a good beating, unfortunately. May Allāh break their vile backs if they fail to repent. Ameen.

[Fahim Faruq @GreenPillCoach]

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[Atlas @CountAtlas]

He ﷺ didn't respond to evil with evil

[Fahim Faruq @GreenPillCoach]

@BraunHB0 @dcjnq @seraphicsidr @muslimorthodoxy Just read your back and forth and you do a phenomenal job at explaining the numerous fallacies and confusions involved in @dcjnq and @muslimorthodoxy comments. I hope they both take benefit by actually sitting with your responses and reflecting.

[Fahim Faruq @GreenPillCoach]

Astutely explained and broken down for a confused mind to take benefit, mā sha'a Llāh. Very well done @BraunHB0 — baraka Llāhu fīkum.

[Maas @BraunHB0]

@dcjnq @seraphicsidr @muslimorthodoxy The Mukhassis argument isn't about an external agent per se, it is a test of Necessity. If an entity possesses a specific quantitative size (e.g., it has a hadd or boundary at Point X instead of Point Y), that size is an arbitrary constraint. It could have been different.

[Pat Stedman | Dating & Relationship Coach for Men @Pat_Stedman]

Masculinity is fundamentally about hard truths. And the hard truth is that most men are unable to simultaneously a) be responsible for themselves and others in provisioning and b) emotionally connect with a woman, which to women means understanding them while also being resistant to their approval - aka loving what is best about them into existence

A man who gets married does not need to be perfect in any of these things, but to maintain his marriage he needs competence in both of these domains

And most guys are NOT competent in these domains.

So I don't know what to tell you. There is no more air support from society to make her stay. Be better or suffer the fruits of inadequacy.

I almost lost my marriage many years ago because of weakness, egotism, and poor leadership. I work with guys all the time who are at the verge of losing it for similar reasons, including poor vetting due to emotional wounds.

If you act like a victim it's game over - you've embodied the feminine. I don't have time for men who complain about life because life doesn't care.

[Fahim Faruq @GreenPillCoach]

@AntoVoidance @DocsFCompanion @Evolving_Moloch Forced marriages, let alone killing over refusals. Is forbidden in the Sharī'ah and punishable with capital punishment lol. What "Islāmic countries" are you referring to?

[Fahim Faruq @GreenPillCoach]

"You are clearly misinformed sir"

— The one who thinks "contingency" in classical Ash'ari Kalam was concocted by Ibn 'Arabi. Amazing 🤦🏽‍♂️🤦🏽‍♂️🤦🏽‍♂️

[The Orthodox Muslim @muslimorthodoxy]

You are clearly misinformed sir, the universe is observably composed on constituents that could have been otherwise, therefore its parts are contingent, and if its parts are contingent then the whole itself is contingent.

We don’t need Ibn Arabi kufr to defend athiest. As a matter of facts, Ibn Arabi is an athiest

[Fahim Faruq @GreenPillCoach]

@muslimorthodoxy @seraphicsidr Just say you're the one who's confused and don't understand what he's saying lil bro.

[Fahim Faruq @GreenPillCoach]

@muslimorthodoxy @seraphicsidr Bro, you don't know what you're talking about 😂.

What in the world does Ibn 'Arabi have to do with this?

Ibn 'Arabi doesn't even represent classical Ash'aris. You're not even aware of the internal issues between classical Ash'aris and Ibn 'Arabi's Metaphysics.

[AY @seraphicsidr]

So many blunders here but that he allows for some "brute facts" is devastating. Completely throws theism under the bus.

Unfortunately, it is tribalism and a popularity contest though.

[Fahim Faruq @GreenPillCoach]

The sad thing is that @muslimorthodoxy doesn't even realize how much he's stepping out of his lane here. He not only failed to address @seraphicsidr, he didn't even register what was being said to him in response.

[AY @seraphicsidr]

@muslimorthodoxy Who are you to claim that the universe ‘can fail to exist in a possible world’ if you dismiss the classical arguments based on composition as "Ibn Arabi garbage" (which you misnomered btw, you meant the mutakalimun) /2

[Gia Macool @GiaMMacool]

There’s always a man behind every woman who “makes it on her own.”

When you see a woman blow up on social media, don’t give her all the credit.

It belongs to the man funding it, shaping the vision, and telling her what to say.

Most people just refuse to admit it.

[Gia Macool @GiaMMacool]

I’m just a woman married to a strong, masculine man for nearly three decades, raised by a strong father with brothers who actually guided and protected me, not coddled me.

We live in a delusional society that screams women are “equal” to men, so girls grow up acting like loud, aggressive, entitled little men…

then throw tantrums wondering why men don’t want them.

Newsflash: men don’t marry women who act like men.

If a guy is out here chasing a masculine woman, competing with her, and calling it “partnership,” he’s not a man.

He’s been thoroughly feminized a hollowed-out shell of what masculinity is supposed to look like.

Soft, confused, and broken by the same propaganda that ruined the women.

The strong men left? They want feminine women.

Not equals in drag.

[John Fontain @MrFontain]

For those pushing for women to be on the front line of dawah, let them first put their own wives forward to be nicknamed Habibiti by missionaries. Consider the fitna of someones wife refusing to listen to her husband because she got a fatwa from a dawah bro. Stay in your lane.

[Gia Macool @GiaMMacool]

In the next decade, we will likely witness a sharp rise in suicides among women.

Many will come to the painful realization that rejecting their natural feminine roles, particularly the strength found in a submissive wife was for our protection, not a weakness.

It is tragic how ignorant humans are to disregard an ancient book that has guided human roles since the dawn of time.

We fight its wisdom, dismiss its truths, and only awaken to its value when it’s too late.

[American Woman @RosaLee40899460]

@dontclipit A true Muslim girl would be disgusted at the thought of taking a picture with a man like him. Performative modesty.

[Gia Macool @GiaMMacool]

Women want a man tall enough to protect her, rich enough to provide for her, masculine enough to lead her, disciplined enough to stay loyal to her…

…but she also wants to constantly challenge him, disrespect him publicly, withhold intimacy, and call leadership “controlling.”

That’s not marriage.
That’s domesticated warfare.

[Fahim Faruq @GreenPillCoach]

Pilled and based. He knows what up wrt to dysfunction of his society at a level very few in his generation can even begin to fathom.

Now, he needs to go further and recognize the problems of even old waves of secular-liberalism.

[Nick Dixon @NickDixon]

Feel like this guy has waited his whole life to say this. Incredibly eloquent and accurate appraisal of the failure of Western elites.

[Fahim Faruq @GreenPillCoach]

Therefore, the core issue is not, “Muslims are disconnected from reality.”

The issue is that modern societies themselves are deeply disordered regarding sexuality, relationships, family formation, moral discipline and its correct creedal foundations.

[Fahim Faruq @GreenPillCoach]

This is a naive framing of the issue. It underestimates how dysfunctional modern youth culture has become globally. In nearly every post-technological society, regardless of religion, you see rising anxiety, porn addiction, identity confusion, loneliness, and familial disorders.

[Fahim Faruq @GreenPillCoach]

The modern environment massively amplifies temptation: pornography/literotica, dating apps, hookup culture, social media sexualization, escort/parlour culture, AI sexual content, and peer normalization. Most youth are interacting with at least one of these pathways already.