Gaslighting is when someone repeatedly triggers your nervous system and harms your mental health. They purposefully provoke you then play the victim card by blaming you once you react to their toxic behaviour, but they will never discuss their disrespect that triggered you.
y’all are terrified of initiating conversation after conflict. i’m not your mother. i’m not whatever ex that used to blow up on you. i’m an adult that wants to hear you, be heard, and heal what's happened between us. silence is not a resolution.
Ladies, it's OKAY to give up on a man when he isn't even trying. Life is too short to spend it with a guy who is inconsiderate & mean. You deserve EFFORT !!
I saw a post that said “I only want people around me who love tf outta me” & I never felt something so bad 😭 the way I have ptsd from people pretending to love me fr is crazy
no woman wants to be mad all the time or be called toxic. y’all dudes have to realize that women react off the way you move. but stop being stuck in your ways! pointing out her every flaw! when you haven’t took a look in the mirror at yourself