I just wanted to share it here since tonight is a night I have added many, many points: Mom asking me to do to much and not respecting boundaries Makes me feel like a burden for spending time anywhere but my room (how I wasn’t allowed to do puzzles because they were “too messy”)
But the moment the vibe shifts into a deep talk or a heart to heart session, my mind goes completely blank, whether it is about sharing my own stress or responding to someone else's problems. I grew up in an emotionally cold household.
sekarang aku udah lahiran, setiap anakku abis nen sebelum matanya merem aku selalu bilang "dek, klo adek bobo dan mimpi ketemu temen-temen adek ajak temen adek buat turun ya biar ada di rahimnya mami ica biar adek disini ada temennya" dan gongnya hari ini temenku ngechat gini,