@muminattaofeek The problem with some of our noble sisters is that they fail to fully come to terms with the fact that it is ALLAAH that ordained the structure the way it is.
If you're happy with the structure, you earn your Lord's pleasure , if not , you earn His anger.
Choose wisely !
@muminattaofeek Muslim fathers have a lot of work to do.
Honestly these days when I discuss with some sisters, I realize how much disdain sisters now have for the word "Submission" and I can't blame them because some brothers too are not responsible and abuse the word.
@muminattaofeek Noble sister, no one says a woman must be poor to respect her husband.
Islam says rich or poor, obedience in what is right is an act of worship.
Khadijah bint Khuwaylid (May ALLAAH be pleased with her) wasn't honoured because she was wealthy, but because of her taqwā.
@muminattaofeek Yes you have spoken well but you present marriage as an "Allah-conscious partnership" while ignoring that Allah also gave the husband qiwāmah (leadership) and obligated the wife to obey him in what is good.
Respect is not based only on love or finances; it is an act of worship.
@muminattaofeek The day your father gave you out to your husband was the day he also gave out the majority share of his authority over you to who ???
To your "husband"
Under Shariah, if your father tells you Muminat come over to my house today and your husband says "NO" you CANNOT go anywhere.
@muminattaofeek I'll give a logical answer first.
You know the way you lived with your parents when you were young up until now where your parents ran the show without you ever being utterly disrespectful.
The sahabiyyahs used to refer to their husbands as "Ya Sayyid" which means "Oh Master"
@YusufTechLab@muminattaofeek JazakumuLlAAH Khayr.
But I don't entirely agree because our mother Khadijah (may ALLAAH be pleased with her) was submissive to the noble Prophet (Peace be Upon Him) even though she was richer than Him (Peace be Upon Him) many times over.
@muminattaofeek What "real men" are scared of is not a woman's money - it's how she will behave when she has it !
Will she still submit ?
Or will she be arrogant ?
Sorry but this is where most women FAIL !!!
@muminattaofeek He can have her throughout the day as long as she doesn't have a valid excuse to refuse him or 5 mins before fajr when it's uncomfortable to go and do ghusl again.. that kind of submission? I'm talking about the man that's responsible oo, not the douchebag.
How many sisters can?