@stepbcn@BearMarc@Mv_4u Yeah, because apparently cheating on your partner is easier than communicating, fixing the relationship, or leaving like an adult. “It’s complicated” doesn’t erase accountability. Cheating is still a choice.
@DeepinsideuSFV@Mv_4u It’s also funny how some people will do anything except take responsibility for their own actions. Instead of admitting ‘I chose to cheat,’ they’d rather blame their partner so they can feel justified.”
@DeepinsideuSFV@Mv_4u ‘Accept your fate’ makes relationships sound like a hostage situation instead of a partnership. Nobody is forced to stay but cheating because you didn’t get sex is still a choice, not some unavoidable law of nature.
@DeepinsideuSFV@BearMarc@Mv_4u The moment things get difficult or tempting, it falls apart. Real companionship actually includes loyalty, because trust is what separates a meaningful relationship from just keeping each other company until something “better” shows up.
@DeepinsideuSFV@BearMarc@Mv_4u Comparing human loyalty to a dog choosing a steak is already the flaw in the argument. Humans aren’t ruled purely by instinct we have self-control, values, and the ability to make conscious commitments.
Companionship without loyalty is just convenience.
@BearMarc@Mv_4u I’d either communicate and work through it together, or leave respectfully if it became a dealbreaker. Cheating while enjoying the companionship is basically wanting the benefits of loyalty without actually being loyal
@SuitedTX@Mv_4u Ah yes, the classic ‘I cheated because my needs weren’t met’ defense. Because apparently breaking up like an adult was just too unreasonable.
And blaming them for your cheating is wild that’s like robbing a store and saying the prices forced you to do it. Peak accountability.