Same with men who pursue you knowing it would be a long distance relationship and then one day they’re like “yeah so actually I don’t want to be in a long distance relationship” like ok 😂
This issue was resolved in 2020.
"You can come if you want" is passive, non-commital, no skin in the game, no yearning, shifts the vulnerability/burden of "wanting"
"I want you to come" is earnest, bears the vulnerability of "wanting", and actively expresses a desire.
I’m fine with being friends, talking, dating etc. but for gods sake Imk how we moving so I’m not over playing my part. cuz what I’m not fine with is looking or feeling dumb.