It’s not about texting all day, but I want to know your thoughts, feelings, and little stories about your day. I want a conversation, a connection, not just “aku udah sampai, aku udah selesai”. I want to feel included in your life, not just updated about it.
@beserpe in rls, batas toleransi kalian gak ngabarin pasangan itu berapa lama? apakah dengan gak ngabarin (24jam sebagai contoh) bisa menunjang potensi lost spark in rls?
I don’t want to move on, but I know holding on like this is only hurting me, so I’m choosing to take a step back and learn to love myself a little more.
Honestly, I don't know either. I still find myself depending on others for happiness, getting attached to them like I'm holding onto a fragile thread, knowing deep down that one day, it might snap, and I'll be left falling with nothing to catch me.
A breakup hurts because you lose what you had. A situationship hurts because you lose what could've been. Neither hurts less, but there's something cruel about grieving a future that never even got the chance to exist.
Idk, maybe feeling sorry for myself is a form of self love. Maybe it's the part of me that knows i've been through enough and deserves a little kindness, even from myself.