In the corporate world, if you have:
- a decent salary,
- a manager who trusts you without micromanaging,
- the flexibility of a hybrid work setup,
- the freedom to take time off when needed,
- opportunities for growth and skill development,
- a supportive and inclusive company culture,
You’re already among the top 1% of professionals enjoying a truly balanced and fulfilling work life.
Never go into marriage with the mindset that you can change your partner.
Anything you can’t tolerate in marriage shouldn’t be ignored during courtship. Deal with it early or walk away. A strong foundation is everything.
Things You Must Discuss Before Marriage:
1. Background & Values
Understand each other’s upbringing, culture, and personal values. Alignment here shapes your entire marriage.
2. Goals & Life Plans
Talk about your future, career ambitions, lifestyle, and long-term plans. You should both know where you’re headed.
3. Religion & Beliefs
Be clear on your faith, how you’ll practice it, and how it will influence your home and children.
4. Family & Boundaries
Discuss in-laws, family expectations, and boundaries. Also agree on children whether to have them, how many, and parenting style.
5. Finances & Budgeting
Be open about income, spending habits, debts, and savings. Decide how bills will be paid, whether accounts will be joint or separate, and how money will be managed.
6. Living Arrangements
Where will you live after marriage? Will you rent,
relocate, or plan to own a home?
7. Sexual Compatibility
Be honest about expectations, values, attraction, and boundaries. This is key to long-term satisfaction.
8. Health
Discuss medical history, lifestyle habits, and consider health screenings.
9. Communication & Conflict Resolution
Can you both communicate openly? Learn how to argue respectfully, resolve issues, and forgive each other.
10. Trust, Faithfulness & Jealousy
Define loyalty clearly. Address trust issues and talk about what triggers jealousy and how to handle it.
11. Love Language & Quality Time
Understand how each of you gives and receives love, and how you’ll intentionally spend time together.
12. Responsibilities & Chores
Agree on roles at home. Simple things like chores can cause serious issues if not defined early.
13. Honesty & Secrets
Be transparent about your past. It’s better to be open now than deal with hidden truths later.
14. Respect
Mutual respect is non-negotiable. You should value, support, and bring out the best in each other.
Nobody hired you to have a vision for their organisation. They hired you to execute theirs. The day you confused your job description with a leadership mandate you didn't have, that was the day the politics started. And you never saw it coming.
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STOP telling ChatGPT "Humanise that"
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