Buildflow Homes

Public Health/ NNPC/NGML registered contractor & supplier / Manchester United/ CR7/ Early career Cybersecurity threat Analyst/ Baker🎂/ Freelancer/ Ad Manager

[Buildflow Homes @H_Enobong]

9 units of 2 bedroom block of
Flat behind NNPC filling station ( behind river park
Estate) before Dunamis Glory Dome, Lugbe

NOTE*
Just come enjoy 💃🏻

_FEATURES_
👉🏻 SWIMMING POOL
👉SECURITY
👉🏻GOOD DRAINAGE
👉🏻STANDARD WASTE DISPOSAL COMPANY
👉 FCDA R/O
75m & 80m respectfu

[Gbenga Samuel-Wemimo @GbengaWemimo]

It is not good to be perceived as a weakling as a man.
People do terrible things to weak people
it is better to be perceived as dangerous
People steer clear of those they perceive to be dangerous
Being perceived as dangerous would keep you from being a victim
Being perceived as a weakling would always make people do cruel things to you

[Sir Dickson @Wizarab10]

One of my friends said, "you have interesting view about marriage. But we know you to be a generous person. You don't even know how to be unkind. All this one you are forming that your woman will invest her money in the home, we know she will enjoy your money. Your guys and people you don't even know are enjoying your kindness. Haba!"

I just smiled and explained to him. I'll write down what I told him.

You are looking at it monetarily. It is not about money. I don't have any attachment to money. The only reason I want to be rich is to expand my reach of kindness. If I'm always kind to strangers and friends, then you should know my partner is enjoying my money too. But it is not about money, it is about commitment. Whether I need her money or not, is irrelevant. Her money must be invested in the home the way mine is invested in the home. I'll eat her money the way she is eating my money. The point is, where your money is, that is where your heart is. You cannot buy love and commitment by footing all the bills. Someone who isn't giving to you habitually, is not in love with you. It is not a male attribute to give, it is a love attribute. Odogwu is not a flex. The whole point of marriage, is to do life together.

Everything I have belongs to her and the kids. If she doesn't know that, it is disappointing. Remember the story of the prodigal son? The one that stayed with the father was angry the father forgave the prodigal son because he didnt know that everything the father had, belonged to him.

[Buildflow Homes @H_Enobong]

But why are some women triggered that men are age-shaming them? Women broke shame men all the time on this app..

[Foundational Nupe Lawyer @egi_nupe]

A woman who doesn’t ask you for sex doesn’t love you

A woman who doesn’t spend her money on you doesn’t love you.

A woman who doesn’t support your financial struggles doesn’t love you.

A woman who only sees you as a provider doesn’t love you.

[Nandi 🤍💜🤍 @pallnandi]

The fastest way to find out if it’s love or business is to stop sending money.

[Oluwatimileyin✨🦋 @Timmysofine]

If we apologized to children more, we would have more adults that accept accountability for their actions.

[Pamilerin Adegoke @Pamilerin]

MEM ONLY:

It's not your job to protect your woman from other men.
It's her job to set boundaries…

[Foundational Nupe Lawyer @egi_nupe]

While we teach people how to say ‘No’, we must equally teach them how to take ‘No’ for an answer.

Inability to accept rejection or boundaries breeds entitlement, which is the silent killer of relationships, marriages, workplaces, and even nations.

When someone says ‘No’ to your request, advance, or expectation, it is not always disrespect, hatred, or an attack on your ego. Often, it is simply their right, their boundary, or their reality.

Entitlement makes us demand what has not been offered, pressure what should be voluntary, and resent what we cannot control. It turns ‘ask’ into ‘expect’, and ‘no’ into personal war.

[Buildflow Homes @H_Enobong]

@egi_nupe Sarcasm 🙄?

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@Quo_Riri Happy birthday mummy.

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@mattyibhawoh @tessysmitha Yea, by the way you're beautiful

[Foundational Nupe Lawyer @egi_nupe]

Yes, because Temi Otedola’s father worked hard such that without her husband, her life is completely sorted. Y’all fathers didn’t work hard enough like that and y’all can’t do anything meaningful with our lives with men, yet y’all expected Temi Otedola’s kind of treatment.

Jokers

[Buildflow Homes @H_Enobong]

@mattyibhawoh @tessysmitha Friends doesn't need to be there in that private moment, they can know about it later

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@MarinatedTurks She's beautiful for real

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@FavouriteCoco2 I & 3

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@Anniebiett Women are beautiful

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@AkwaibomVine Mbok Ette ami adia mkpo?

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@jilly_big In school, I bought Fridge, I bought the gas camp gas, my room mate bought the I better pass my neighbour gen and TV and we both used it till I graduated first and left.

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All hail the king

[Buildflow Homes @H_Enobong]

@KerenKBitto A lady on my WhatsApp posted on her status that when you are married and your spouse is growing and achieving, be growing too don't leave gap. I just look at her and laugh. Well to each their own.