Ya Allah, lapangkanlah dada kami sekosong-kosongnya untuk diisi dengan ketenangan, berkatilah rezeki yang Engkau pinjamkan kepada kami, ampunkanlah kejahilan kami dan biarlah hidup kami berakhir dalam keredhaan dan rahmat-Mu.
• Never share your plans before they're done. [al-Kabir 16644]
• Eat only what is halal and pure. [2:168]
• Always look your best. [Muslim 91a]
• Leave what doesn’t concern you. [Tirmidhi 2318]
• Visit less where you’re not missed. [Bukhari 6416]
• Have haya'. [Muslim 36]
• Do istighfar before you react. [4:110]
• Change yourself before expecting change. [13:11]
• Control what you look at. [24:30-31]
• Stop saying more than necessary. [Bukhari 6136]
• Don’t repeat more than needed. [Bukhari 95]
• Keep your promises. [5:1]
• You don’t need to laugh at everything. [Bukhari 6092]
• Don't ask for what wasn't offered. [Bukhari 1471]
How to respect YOURSELF
• Stop begging people. [Muslim 1053a]
• Think before you talk. [Bukhari 6478]
• Let people think what they want. [88:22]
• Speak to Allah before you speak to people. [40:60]
• Hide your sins. [Bukhari 6069]
• Arrive on time. Leave on time. [4:103]
Allah knows how hard it is for you. Allah knows how you pick yourself up each time you feel down. Allah knows how you handle it with a smile that often struggles through those hidden tears. Allah knows and He helps you every step of the way. He will soon make it easy.