Civil wedding: Monaco 🇲🇨
Traditional wedding: Dubai 🇦🇪
Church wedding: Iceland 🇮🇸
Found out they were pregnant: Japan 🇯🇵
First pregnancy scan: Dubai 🇦🇪
God punish poverty seh😩
I’m really proud of women of this era who refuse to suffer in silence. Hafsat Kamal spoke up about what she has been going through, and that does not make her a hypocrite or a liar. If she had chosen to leave her marriage quietly, the same people criticizing her today would be the first to say, “ta ki zaman aure.” She talked about the weight she lost, her health challenges, her education, and the sacrifices she made for the sake of her marriage. No woman deserves to endure depression or emotional pain in silence just to please society.
She also shared screenshots and evidence on her Instagram page, including allegations involving Hadiza Gabon and other women she believes were connected to the issues in her marriage. If she has evidence, then people should allow the matter to be addressed fairly instead of sending people to attack or harass her.
Some co-wives can be very wicked, and some men can be unfair. Rather than rushing to judge her, people should try to understand her pain and what led her to speak out.
I sympathize with Hafsat and pray Allah grants her strength, peace, and justice. Every woman deserves to be heard.
Personally, I don’t think Hadiza Gabon would sleep with a young man like Saleem Goje. There must be some misunderstanding somewhere.
Based on the chat, the unverified messages show that Hadiza Gabon was asking him to join her for sahur. I think the milk and dates she was eaten was what Saleem was asking to eat “raw.”
I'm a woman but by Allah I sometimes wonder how our brain works, just like how you're living comfortably in a 3 bedroom apartment with just 2 kids and you want your husband to sacrifice his hajj for stupid solar and students fees, Hajj fa something that's wajib(farilla) on him
I'm not married but my mom once told me that you can marry the right person and still feel stuck. You can have a stable, faithful partner and still feel unfulfilled if you built your whole identity around being someone’s wife instead of being your own person first.
Marriage benefits from a strong individual, it doesn’t create one. If you don’t know who you are, what you want, and how to stand on your own, marriage can quietly turn into a place where you shrink instead of grow. So don’t chase marriage like it’s the goal. Chase a life that already feels full so if you choose to marry, it adds to you, not becomes you.
Get married with the purpose of getting closer to Allah and In sha Allah it will be a blessed marriage. Marry someone who will encourage you, elevate your Imaan, be a great model for your children and most importantly, bring you closer to Allah.
My secondary schoolmate was killed by her own son. It happened on Monday, but her family only discovered it on Wednesday night. I’m still struggling to process it. Allah Ka shirya mana zuri’ah. Ubangiji yaji kanki da Rahama. Allah Ka rabamu da mummunar kaddara.
We sang The Climb by Miley Cyrus before we even knew what real mountains felt like now every single word hits different.
There’s always gonna be another mountain, always gonna be an uphill battle, sometimes I’m gonna have to lose.and wow, she really meant that.
2026 plot twist:
-Suddenly leaving for Umrah/Hajj.
-Unexpectedly achieved a lifelong dream.
-Suddenly bought a house.
-Suddenly, the impossible becomes your new reality.
-Suddenly married.
-Suddenly got a job.
-Suddenly, a whispered du'a moves galaxies in your favor.