Don’t rush into intercourse. Focus on kissing, touching, and intimacy. Listen to the woman’s wishes and observe her reactions. Ask what she enjoys and ensure that both of you want to proceed. The most important thing is that both partners feel safe and comfortable. Don’t assume you know what she enjoys. Talk openly, use lubricant if necessary, and take care of contraception—such as using a condom. Things don’t have to go perfectly the first time.