first I wasted 4 YEARS with a man who didn't care about ME. THEN turned around & wasted 2 YEARS WITH THE SAME man off and on who didn't care about me.. THEN TURNT right back round & wasted another year tryna make it work with the same person who clearly didn't care!... but listen the kicker was in TOTAL it took me 7 YEARS almost 8 to realize it was ME that didn't care about ME! because in those YEARS! i did not accomplish anything in life, i was too busy chasing love. a lot of y'all think that love makes you better.. or that it will complete you, but the truth is if you don't LOVE YOURSELF you won't ever be complete!!