The biggest lesson I learned this year is to not force anything; conversations, friendships, relationships, attention, love. Anything forced is just not worth fighting for. Whatever flows flows, what crashes crashes. It is what it is.
Itโs ok to be silly. Itโs ok to be whimsical. Itโs ok to be creative. Itโs ok to show emotion. Itโs ok to be wrong. Itโs ok to fail. Itโs ok to hold hands and hug. Itโs ok to say โI love youโ. Itโs ok to live. Itโs ok to be you because we are all just trying to figure it out.