Hajar B

Just talking to ourselves.
Cakap sorang-sorang.

[Hajar B @Hajar_Bas]

I want to search something on shopee. But I have to login first, after login I forgot what to search. deymm

[Hajar B @Hajar_Bas]

@Aestheticsn1 taunt

[Eleanor🎼 @Eleanor1589539]

The best game for keeping the memory of older people alive

[Hajar B @Hajar_Bas]

Lama tak lepak dengan my bros..lepak game pun jadi la.

[Hajar B @Hajar_Bas]

@Mars0986 ye la tuu..melompat kita nmpk maryam dah berjalan. lupa nk selpie satu kali

[Hajar B @Hajar_Bas]

Sometimes2, I is fomo

[Hajar B @Hajar_Bas]

Masih Debater (ENTP-A).

[Hajar B @Hajar_Bas]

Miss my research life (tho I am still a research student at this age). Tapi nanti klu full-time duk kat lab, rasa tak beneficial pula kurang knowledge sharing. Entah la nak

[Hajar B @Hajar_Bas]

Entahlah. Apa pula drama naik cuti ni. Boring la nak layan.

[Hajar B @Hajar_Bas]

Ramadan 7. Rindu pula kat kawan² yang jauh di mata, dekat di hati. Semoga semua baik2 dan diberkati Allah bulan Ramadhan ni. 🤲🏽🤲🏽

[ً @prinkasusa]

When I was twenty, my mom got sick.
Not the dramatic kind you see in movies. Just something that started as “fatigue” and turned into hospital visits, prescriptions, and quiet conversations behind closed doors.
I was in school. I had plans. I was supposed to be focused on exams and internships and figuring out who I wanted to become.
Instead, I learned how to read medical bills.
My dad worked overtime. I started picking up shifts at a grocery store after classes. I told my friends I couldn’t hang out because I was “saving money.” I didn’t tell them it was for copays and medication refills.
There was one night I remember clearly.
The power hadn’t gone out. No one was yelling. Nothing dramatic was happening. I was just sitting at the kitchen table with a calculator, trying to make numbers behave. If we paid this bill late, could we cover the next one? If I worked two extra shifts, could we avoid using the credit card?
I felt older than I was.
At the hospital, I learned how to sit still for hours. How to nod calmly when doctors explained things I barely understood. How to smile at my mom and say, “It’s going to be fine,” even when I wasn’t sure.
I stopped sleeping properly. I stopped complaining. I became efficient. Responsible. Reliable.
One afternoon, after a long shift, I sat in my car and realized I hadn’t cried once since everything started. Not because I was brave. Because I didn’t have the space to.
Things didn’t magically fix themselves. My mom’s health improved slowly. The bills didn’t disappear, but they became manageable. My grades dipped, then recovered. I kept going.
Looking back, there wasn’t a single heroic moment. No big speech. No turning point.
Just small, stubborn decisions:
Go to class. Go to work. Go to the hospital.
Repeat.
I used to think strength was loud... dramatic, visible, impressive.
Now I know it’s often quiet.
It’s the version of you that keeps moving forward, even when no one sees how heavy everything feels.

[☆ @Literarium24]

𝘠𝘰𝘶𝘳 𝘥𝘦𝘢𝘵𝘩 𝘸𝘪𝘭𝘭 𝘤𝘰𝘮𝘦 𝘰𝘯 𝘢𝘯 𝘰𝘳𝘥𝘪𝘯𝘢𝘳𝘺 𝘥𝘢𝘺, 𝘪𝘯 𝘵𝘩𝘦 𝘮𝘪𝘥𝘥𝘭𝘦 𝘰𝘧 𝘶𝘯𝘧𝘪𝘯𝘪𝘴𝘩𝘦𝘥 𝘱𝘭𝘢𝘯𝘴, 𝘢𝘯𝘥 𝘵𝘩𝘦 𝘸𝘰𝘳𝘭𝘥 𝘸𝘪𝘭𝘭 𝘤𝘰𝘯𝘵𝘪𝘯𝘶𝘦 𝘸𝘪𝘵𝘩𝘰𝘶𝘵 𝘺𝘰𝘶.

[Hajar B @Hajar_Bas]

Nak kerja apa eh?

[Lumrah Lanyard (LL) @LumrahL]

Signs you have outgrown your job. If you feel 3 or more, it is time to move.

A thread.

[It's Amey 𝕏 @ameydeen_]

Ni mangsa p3d0. Budak ni di'gr0oming' dari sebelum ambik upsr. Bila umur 13 tahun dah mengandung.

Budak tu happy je sebenarnya sebab dia tak tahu akibat. Best apa ada lelaki sebaya bapa belai, peluk, sentuh dan akhir sekali barulah bersetubuh.

THREAD

[Hajar B @Hajar_Bas]

@Mars0986 haha I pun pi kursus 2009, teman kawan. sampai sudah x ambil sijil nya

[Yves ౨ৎ @yvessirae]

i don't know who needs to hear this but in order to become a better person, you must first realize how horrible you really are. not in the dramatic sense, but in the quiet ways you sabotage yourself, repeat unhealthy patterns, hurt people who care about you, or tolerate what wounds you. you cannot grow if you keep pretending you’re innocent in the story you created

[Hajar B @Hajar_Bas]

https://t.co/SX8PpJ6aTr yeah I'm listening to my kakak. now a professor in Universitas Negeri Malang (UM).

[Hajar B @Hajar_Bas]

Missing my research gang, whether in Asasi, UTP, or LDMRC. We always had so much fun. What we did were not easy, but most of us managed to go through it because of this community.

[The PhD Place @ThePhDPlace]

Me trying to avoid my thesis at the weekend

[Hajar B @Hajar_Bas]

If I want to disappear, can I do that?