Who babysits his kids when he’s out, his wife? Does he feel guilty taking so much “me time” for himself? Will he stop when he gets his pre-baby body back? How does his family feel about this selfish act? How does he run and finish house chores, shopping, cooking, and cleaning?
Oiselle is mailing hard copies of my “Letter to My Younger Self” to coaches and athletic programs by request. They sent over 500 when it first came out. Hang it in a locker room. A coach’s office. Send it to a coach who needs some help not being an abuser.