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[MsPosh @HappinessMabo]

Attending a ‘Jonasi’s’ funeral today. Tjo. The greatest victims are the children. The trauma they carry because of the parents actions.

[MsPosh @HappinessMabo]

I support the GNU because it has strengthened accountability, there seems to be greater focus on fixing governance and linking funding to performance and service delivery.

[MsPosh @HappinessMabo]

Municipalities have become politicised. Gone are the days when they were public institutions serving citizens. They have become vehicles for political patronage, with even municipal branding changing to reflect the party in power.

[Miss LeloB @MsLeloB]

🎙️ About 10 years ago I listened to Nikiwe Bikitsha on radio talk about the continent in a way that made me want to see more of it.
In my next episode, I chat to her about our shared love for exploring Africa and the world. Coming up soon, on Chica Travel

https://t.co/MYkTzACM5B

[MsPosh @HappinessMabo]

@Compaqllow I think she likes supporting and being loyal to her friends, this looks like a design from Fabrosandz… she is friends with the owner

[MsPosh @HappinessMabo]

@Anele 😀😀my exact comment to my niece yesterday with fresh blush and highlighter! 😀

[MsPosh @HappinessMabo]

@Ketso28 The future of the twins - not recognising their own mother, Jonas’s son, he was always in love with Lindani….she will always be his weakness - the impact on the children was my biggest takeaway

[MsPosh @HappinessMabo]

@TRadijelwane @Ma_Lunga 😀😀😀

[MsPosh @HappinessMabo]

The last scene of #ThePolygamist captured how unresolved family dysfunction can become generational trauma.Sometimes the biggest victims are those who didn’t create the problem, inheriting not only assets &traditions, but also wounds, patterns &unfinished business.#SinsOfParents

[MsPosh @HappinessMabo]

@uMaNgwenya_ This happens a lot! I know a young husband, who refused to take his medication, he died

[MsPosh @HappinessMabo]

Why do women stay? the cheating catches you off guard! the lies, promises to change, considering family,children, church, friends,society. Then the finances, if you leave, how will you support yourself since you took a backseat to support his career ambitions🥲 #ThePoligamist

[MsPosh @HappinessMabo]

#ThePolygamist The impact all of this has on the children! can shape their behaviour, affect their emotional well-being & leave scars that may stay with them for years.The adults make the choices, it is the children who carry the consequences long after the situation has ended.

[MsPosh @HappinessMabo]

@ItsMomoMashhh @KhananiShingan1 This what they call ‘pay yourself first’

[MsPosh @HappinessMabo]

@aime_mwizaa There you go folks! You’ve made me reflect 😊😊😊

[MsPosh @HappinessMabo]

@aime_mwizaa someone to enjoy a coffee with, discover new places together, laugh about the little things, or simply unwind with after a long day.
I still love my life and my independence, but these days I find myself valuing companionship more than I did before.

[MsPosh @HappinessMabo]

@aime_mwizaa After doing so many solo trips, I’ve come to appreciate both sides of it. I love the freedom, the independence, and the ability to do exactly what I want. But after a while, even the most seasoned solo traveller starts to miss having someone to share the experience with

[MsPosh @HappinessMabo]

@aime_mwizaa 80% of the time, I’m happy and genuinely love my life. I enjoy the freedom to do what I want, when I want, and I don’t take that for granted.

But holidays have a way of reminding me that I’d love to have a companion, someone to travel with, go on coffee dates with

[MsPosh @HappinessMabo]

@aime_mwizaa That’s why now I understand when we are advised that we need therapy to help us navigate these seasons of life. Sometimes we all need support to unpack our experiences and move forward with clarity.

[MsPosh @HappinessMabo]

@aime_mwizaa Now, at this stage of my life (48) , I simply want a companion. The challenge is finding the balance between being being real without sounding like I’m bragging about my achievements, being humble, protecting myself & healing from past relationship disappointments.

[MsPosh @HappinessMabo]

@aime_mwizaa The biggest reflection I’ve had to do, is on my own character and attitude. Once you become a leader at work, it can be difficult to separate your work persona from your personal life. I realised that sometimes we can come across as overly direct, arrogant, or too demanding