Dear Lord,
Today, help me stop revisiting what You already brought me out of, strengthen my decision to move forward, break my attachment to old versions of people and make me comfortable with what is next. In Jesus name. Amen🙏🏽
Nobody talks about the type of heartbreak where you don't cry anymore, you just stare at walls and feel nothing at all. It's not anger. It's not sadness.
It's the silence that comes when your nervous system has shut down from too much pain. It's emotional exhaustion disguised as calm.
I hate how social media makes us forget that life has stages. It’s normal to be broke, to have broke friends or partners and yes it’s even normal to be unemployed at times. These are phases we all go through.
Some people are lucky enough to find good jobs at a young age and afford a certain lifestyle. Others take longer and that’s perfectly okay. We need to stop comparing ourselves and start accepting our journey. I just want all of us to be at peace with where we are in life while still working and striving for better.
Most relationships taught me that the more chances you give a person, the less they'll value you. They aren't scared to lose you because they know no matter what, you won't walk away. People learn how to treat you by what you tolerate — start choosing distance over disrespect.
How I got infected with HIV.
I was 17, my friend and I went to a club to watch a performance by Chomee. During the performance, I spotted Tebogo Ndlovu (Zombo), and he was winking at me. He had lost a lot of weight. #BeyondSilence#letstalk