Gerrard

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Its all in your mind.

[Blake Burge @blakeaburge]

A rule that will improve your life: Never assume bad intent, but don’t ignore repeated patterns. Everyone gets grace. Nobody gets unlimited passes.

[Gerrard @Harvey_7777]

@NoopurOffice @theLineNotDrawn Hs will end up like British, who pay more direct taxes which fund welfare schemes for all refugees and asylum seekers.

[Ashwin Kandra @AshwinKandra]

@worshipVK The rewards often look crazy until you read the risks someone took to earn them.

[Gerrard @Harvey_7777]

Society is fucked up.
A girl cant even express her relationship with her siblings on social media.

[ethéra @etheravibe]

Above all, do not lose your desire to walk

[zoë @zoeloveshouses]

the concept of wanting to kill yourself because you want to live your life so badly but you can’t

[໊ @soysabil]

everything gets revealed to you on a walk

[soosoorandom @sluvity_____]

It's interesting watching people underestimate you until they realise you were being humble, not incapable.

[mikayla @honeyNonABG]

I’m pushing 30. Was at the beach and some 18 year old lied and said he was 21.

I told him I’m his mother. He wouldn’t go away. I told him I’m basically 30. He said age didn’t matter. He came up to me 3-4 times. And as courageous as he was, to me he was a child.

A young boy just starting out. One that was offering himself up to be taken advantage of.

Makes me think of all the 60+ year old men “dating” 20 year olds.

Makes me think of that 65 year old who was talking to 21 year old me.
How do these men do that? How do they look at a literal child and go “wow she’s mature” when i was looking at this 18 year old and thinking of how much younger he is than my younger brother.

“She’s a fully grown adult.” And you’re excusing yourself to feel less guilty.

[Gerrard @Harvey_7777]

@jennifrlauren Movie name ?

[Gerrard @Harvey_7777]

@chiplichipli2k @grok m9vie name

[Gerrard @Harvey_7777]

@chiplichipli2k @grok movie name please

[Lien @Jacksonsrule]

There is always another job, another
city & another love. But never another life. Don't be afraid to leave & start over.

[Himanshi @negi_himanshi_]

I’ve been going to this gym for 1.5 years. pay bi-annually. (8k for 6 months) i have my AirPods in every single time, i don’t talk to anyone, i’m just there to workout.
today was 7am. maybe 15-18 men in the gym, 2 women including me. i was the only one doing weight training. i don’t get intimidated by that anymore- took time, but i got there. as long as nobody stares, i’m fine.
except today a handful of them just. wouldn’t. stop. staring.
not a glance. not a look. staring. i ignored it. kept going. but at some point it just gets inside your head and ruins everything and i ended up doing 2 back exercises and 20 mins treadmill and left. that was my workout today because of grown men who apparently had nothing else to look at.
there’s also this general trainer. he’s tried to correct my form maybe 2-3 times in the span of a week. i never asked. i have AirPods in. i don’t respond, ignored it.
today he was giving PT to someone on the cable machine. he came to ask if they could alternate. i nodded — AirPods still in, didn’t say a word. my turn comes, and he tries to correct my form. again. nobody asked. again.
i left.
in the parking lot i saw an older trainer i’ve known since i joined. told him it’s uncomfortable, the gym needs a female general trainer. he smiled and said “haan mei baat karunga” — the way you smile when someone’s telling you something that isn’t really your problem.
and then, two guys from inside were leaving on their bikes. one of them had been staring the entire time. still staring. i was on a call. i looked directly at him and waited for him to stop.
he didn’t.
i asked him what are you looking at.
he just left.
i’m not going back. my membership runs till may end and i genuinely do not care.
could i file a complaint? sure. would it do anything? no. you cannot file a complaint against a mentality.

THIS IS WHY PEOPLE SAY UPGRADE YOUR GYM IF YOU CAN. THE EQUIPMENT IS THE SAME EVERYWHERE. THE CROWD ISN’T.

[Dr. Julie Gurner @drgurner]

No one is perfect, but if you don't think highly of yourself, you'll ruin your life.

[S. Williams @ShakWills]

To try. To attempt. To pursue. To work towards whatever it may be. To put hands around this life, and have it.

[UwUTangClan @Executivejeff1]

helping my unemployed friend look for a job in order to reduce the amount of reels they send me