few years ago i read a quote that said “the faster that you do the hard things you want to avoid, the faster you will receive the good things you actually want.” and that changed my perspective ever since.
Please date men who are sweet. Please date men who are emotionally available. Please date men who are Provider. Please date men who are soft spoken & patient with you. Please date men who respect your opinion in a fight. Life is already hard, atleast spend it with a good person.
one thing that helps me get over relationships and friendships that didn't work out is trusting that God wouldn't want me anywhere that causes pain, chaos, or anxiety. if that's happening, it's not for me.