It's an honour to have not only participated, but also networked with amazing individuals, sat in the same room with trailblazing individuals and shook hands with great men.
The feeling is indeed, surreal.
Not everyone who likes you is good for you.
Don't mistake attention for genuine love. Someone texting you all day doesn't automatically mean they care about you the way you deserve.
Stop trying to be the "understanding" person every single time. A relationship shouldn't always require one person to keep making excuses for the other.
Don't rush commitment because others are settling down. The wrong person is still the wrong person.
Never make someone your whole world. Keep your goals, friends, and identity.
Learn that chemistry and compatibility are not the same thing. You can have amazing chemistry with someone and still be completely wrong for each other.
Don't stay just because you've invested years. If something is draining you more than it's growing you, it's okay to walk away.
Not every disagreement means the relationship is failing. Sometimes it's just two people learning each other.
Lastly, never beg for the bare minimum. The right person won't make you chase respect, effort, or honesty.
I’ll come back to her statement. But why is that bro on jalabia looking like that? His facial expression betrayed his composure. Bro has a lot to say 😂😭
I graduated from Unilorin with 4. In 2018.
Graduated from Med school in 2026 with 2 distinctions in my 20s. All of these were done while running my food business. I have sold more than 500 plates of food and more than 400 bottles of natural drinks.
This is Growth💃💃💃
Small things that aren’t small for me.
1. Good morning texts
2. Voice notes
3. Unexpected texts
4. +4 messages
5. Showing interest
6. I heard that you like this
7. This reminds me of you
8. Unexpected calls
9. Remembering my birthday
10. Small updates even when busy
11. Small video clips
12. Sending songs that remind them of me
13. Laughing at my bad jokes
14. Have you eaten?
15. I saw this and thought of you
I have a problem with the phrasing but a halal-haram ratio should ordinarily speak to compatibility on matters of the deen, especially for people who intend to build a life together and raise a family as fundamental differences in religious beliefs and practices can create friction in a marriage. For example, if I do not believe that wearing the niqab is compulsory, I probably should not marry a man who believes that it is because how then do we raise our daughters? Or if I do not believe in Asalatu and he does, that is also something that can create friction within the family. Even in friendships, people will naturally gravitate towards those they are more compatible with. So what’s the fuss about? 🤷🏽♀️
how do you actually meet Muslim men that are adventurous funny and silly but emotionally intelligent and also on the same halal to haram ratio as you but also want to grow and learn together.
I saw a post that said, “Did you really think Allah would give you a heart like that and not create someone who could love you the same way?” and it genuinely brought tears to my eyes.
Because sometimes being soft and sensitive feels heavy…
Boys cry too. Boys have fears too. Boys need love, safety, and mental health support too.
Today we celebrate and protect the heart of every boy child. ❤️
#InternationalDayOfTheBoyChild
After my husband told me he was ready to come visit my parents to let his intentions known. I informed both of them when my dad got back from work. My dad was like “you just gained admission and it’s husband you want to bring home” 🤣🤣🤣🤣
My mum tried to convince him that I was trying to do things the right way so he gave in. My husband later came with one of his brother and his friend and my dad fell in love with how outspoken my husband was, he asked my husband if my education wouldn’t stop and he promised him nothing of such would happen.
Guess who’s going for her PhD soon, ME 😍
I used to think people were supposed to automatically understand how I felt, so I didn’t really know how to communicate properly. But growing up made me realize that everyone is different, and communication is actually one of the few things that keeps relationships and marriages healthy.
No matter the situation, communicate. It brings peace to the heart, clears misunderstandings, and solves problems than silence.
Sometimes, being the bigger person means speaking up calmly, expressing how you feel, and listening too. Especially in marriage, communication, patience, reassurance, and understanding matter more than people realize.
A lot of people give up too quickly these days. The moment things become difficult, they start looking for comfort elsewhere instead of fixing what’s already in front of them.
If something is bothering you, talk about it. If something feels broken, try to fix it with honesty and love or you both see a therapist .
Good communication can save a lot of relationships people think are already falling apart.