That Guy

Just another keyboard warrior. Fighting one battle at a time.

[That Guy @HeartBangTheory]

Stop trying to find happiness outside of you. It is in there, no one else and nothing external can make it happen. They can help, but eventually it’s all on you.

[That Guy @HeartBangTheory]

Unreal. This has to be a simulation!

[That Guy @HeartBangTheory]

@serenab_ @itsmymatepaddy @notsosavvydater Moral, emotional, superficial, non-superficial they are all part of the package. Some you won’t compromise on, others you will. No point engaging though - have a good day.

[That Guy @HeartBangTheory]

Standards drop with age. That’s just fact... or you die alone!

[That Guy @HeartBangTheory]

@serenab_ @itsmymatepaddy @notsosavvydater And at that point, yes one should rather die alone...

[That Guy @HeartBangTheory]

@serenab_ @itsmymatepaddy @notsosavvydater I disagree. That is part of standards. Being in abusive or unhealthy relationship or with someone you aren’t into, is not lowering standards. That’s just lack of self-respect.

[That Guy @HeartBangTheory]

@clumsyoaf33 I wasn’t suggesting to be in an unhealthy relationship state. That’s just not normal to me. Like never happened, and never will let it happen

[That Guy @HeartBangTheory]

@clumsyoaf33 That I agree with. There’s a jerk, nobody should be with a jerk. Then there’s the fiction vs reality. Simply put a 3 aiming for a 10 is highly unlikely. As a 3 faces multiple rejections, he/she has to come down to Earth to move forward.

[That Guy @HeartBangTheory]

@KristyDyson Exactly. There’s the perfect person in our minds and there’s the reality of what we can achieve. A 3 aiming for a 10 ain’t gonna happen. You realise that more and more as you get older or experience rejections from the 10s

[That Guy @HeartBangTheory]

@clumsyoaf33 What is settle? There is a human in our minds that we want to date. Then there’s the reality of our reach i-e the best we can realistically be with. That reach is what you realise over time...

[That Guy @HeartBangTheory]

@gemisinlondon @notsosavvydater Great and I hope you find your perfect someone soon

[That Guy @HeartBangTheory]

@haribotweets We have to believe. Everybody deserves good things to happen to them and your time will come too

[That Guy @HeartBangTheory]

@dumbblonde721 Ha. I believe you and yes to the choices part. Brave new world we are part of

[That Guy @HeartBangTheory]

Every bumble profile looks like the girl just walked out of runway, climbed Everest, jumped off in Lamborghini, went swimming in Bahamas in her yacht, all while building the next Goldman Sachs and somehow ended up single in Greater London. Where the regular women at?

[That Guy @HeartBangTheory]

@haribotweets Which sucks and I really hope and wish things will change for you.

[That Guy @HeartBangTheory]

@haribotweets What you are referring to are not standards IMO. That’s just normal, common decency. Something that should just be a given in any relationship

[That Guy @HeartBangTheory]

@haribotweets Where’s that leading though...

[That Guy @HeartBangTheory]

@gemisinlondon @notsosavvydater Think you missed the die alone part...