@Favwontmiss It's a process, and I like to feel the warmth and massage on my back. If I'm trying to wash my front and shave, it's easier and more efficient if the water is blocked by my backside. Sometimes, I even turn the shower head towards the wall. Who remembers the hokey pokey? 😆
a lot of adults don't better themselves??? and have no intention of growth or healing??? they’re just living their lives with horrible communication skills, lack of emotional intelligence, selfishness, and hurt feelings FOREVER?????
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You don’t need a perfect partner. You need someone who can regulate their emotions, admit when they fck up, and actually sit with uncomfortable conversations without shutting down, flipping it on you, or throwing low blows every time sht gets real.
If she's telling you to fix the issues because she won't do this forever, you still have time to save it.
If she's mad at you for not partaking in your relationship the way you said you would, you still have time to save it.
If she's crying, begging for you to do better, there's still a chance.
The second she seems fine, even though you never did what she needed you to do, she's done. The time bomb has already exploded. You've lost her.
@libriscent You can rewrite the story for other people, but you can’t rewrite the truth. Actions leave marks, and accountability has a way of finding people when they least expect it.
@CrazyVibes_1 You're stuck at a crossroads. The second you stop trying to control this, the 3rd option will appear. Just let them. She's decided what she she's going to do despite having previous conversations about it. You keep doing you. Don't enable. Let the universe do what it does. Trust.
@Raindropsmedia1 If this is real, you're dealing with an extremely dysregulated individual. Any punishment tactics involving fear will only make it worse because that type of discipline isn't what ultimately fixes this behavior.