If you love someone because they love you, that is empathy. If you love someone for their beauty, that is attraction. If you love someone for what they offer, that is interest.
If you love someone for their kindness, that is admiration. But when you cannot fully explain why you love them, only that your heart does, that is love.
Women today don’t want marriage
they want the wedding.
They dream about the dress, the photos, the attention…
but have no clue how to be a wife, a mother or raise a family.
She won’t change because you asked. She’ll change when she meets a man she’s scared to lose. If she’s still playing games with you, you’re not that man. Stop auditioning for a role she already decided you don’t fit.
march, sharpen my intentions and cut ties with confusion, filter my thoughts with love until peace begins to drip from my energy. protect my spirit from fear that travels faster than truth and allow me to release what lives beyond my reach. keep my integrity louder than worry.
they’ll grieve the access they once had to you and call it missing who you used to be, but the thing is you aren’t different, at least in how they think, you just aren’t abandoning yourself to maintain a version of you they were comfortable with.
i had to bury many versions of myself to become the person i am today, but there are still many versions of me that deserve funerals, so i can give birth to peace.
If you deny your husband sex at home, don’t act surprised when he finds it elsewhere. Marriage isn’t just paperwork, sex, intimacy, and exclusivity are part of the deal. Ignore or weaponize it and you’re inviting trouble.
30 years ago, parents hoped their daughters would marry a good man. Today, parents hope their sons marry a good woman. There’s a huge lesson in that shift.