Welcome you all to Adefunke house of quality fabrics
I hear say you need a legit vendor that sells quality Kampala, Adire, Ankara that doesn't fade away?
Adefunke, is legit and sells only quality yet affordable Fabrics
Big Kampala, 5yards
Location Lagos
Some of you have used pride and ungrateful attitude to block more blessings and even blessings for other people.
Sometimes before someone gifts you they will have you in mind for days, weeks and even months sometimes because they have to plan towards it.
But here you are, you will receive the gifts, calculate it and say it’s only 20k forgetting that’s a lot of Love from someone to you.
Don’t get comfortable with blessings and forget to say THANK YOU and even THANK YOU FOR YESTERDAY!
In my brother voice ( Salako) , IRE OO!!
Not everyone will heal in this lifetime. It's important that we accept and understand this. The perpetual emphasis on acknowledging and healing trauma is a beautiful thing, but its not for everyone. Because some of us don't have the capacity to heal. Some can't even get out of bed, because of the weight of their pain and the complexity of their trauma. Too much has happened, and there is no possibility of transformation. This is very hard to accept in our toxic positivity culture, one where trauma is the new buzz word and where people forget that they are not walking in someone's else's shoes. Just because you were able to heal parts of your past, doesn't mean everyone can heal parts of theirs. We have all lived in a trauma inducing culture.
Some of us didn't make it through in one piece. That's a fact. And if we can just accept this, and honor and comfort them as they are without any effort to 'heal' them, we actually stand a chance of co-creating the kind of trauma-sensitive world that avoids this level of suffering altogether. Because trauma is perpetuated by insensitivity.
Our tendency to turn a blind eye to the truth of people's suffering, to shame them for not healing, to blame it on their karma and their choices, is precisely the dissociative consciousness that perpetuates the trauma cycle. You want to help, but you just make it worse. Better to accept people right where they are. Better to provide comfort to the fallen ones. That alone will heal the world.
i’ve seen so many people win these last couple years, i’ve congratulated people for days, i’ve seen people go from nothing to something just from strategic positioning & access
i pray when it’s my turn it’s a total package.. it’s the one that changes everything for me. ✨ 🙏🏽