no one can ever gaslight me into thinking im a bad person..i have my ways & i have my days, but im solid and my love is real and genuine every step of the way
a girl on tiktok said “detachment is crazy because you’ll still care. still remember their birthday. still hope they’re okay. you just stop showing it” and that’s real shit.
When people do not consider you in the same way you consider them, let them go. There’s actually so many people in the world that can match your energy and love you the way you love.
When people don’t consider you in the same way you consider them, let them go. There’re actually so many people in the world that can match your energy and love you the way you love.
praying for healthier desires and more disciplined decision making in all aspects of my life; who i’m around, what i ingest (physically and figuratively), how i allow people to access and affect me. all of the above
im not interested in complicated relationships… with friends, family or lovers. I’m not interested in constantly explaining what I meant. I’m not interested in making sure we’re on good terms bc you’re acting weird. I’m not interested in shrinking myself to make us equal..
One thing about me.. I’ll never ask why someone didn’t acknowledge me.. milestones, birthdays, congratulations, whatever. Just think about how that sounds: asking someone why they didn’t care enough. I take s* for what it is. My dignity > chasing explanations.
Heal so you can love, feel, and connect more deeply. Heal so you can speak your mind without fear of being judged, ridiculed, or invalidated. Heal so you can manifest healthy relationships with no trauma attached to them. Heal so you can remember who you are and what you deserve.