Marital Hell

I'm assured a place in Heaven when I die because I'm living my Hell now. Unhappily married male looking to vent & make new friends.

[TheXYGhost @TheXYGhost]

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[TheXYGhost @TheXYGhost]

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I am tired of hearing women saying that they are giving a man a chance. A chance at what? A chance at being your servant?

TheXYGhost

[Offend_no_one @offendnoone]

Women have become far too comfortable expecting relationship benefits without bringing much to the table.

They don’t want to cook.
They don’t want to contribute financially.
They don’t know how to build a stable home.
They communicate through constant conflict.
Instead of bringing peace, they bring unnecessary chaos.

Yet they still expect to be treated according to traditional relationship roles.

But if you expect traditional treatment, shouldn’t you also be prepared to contribute something meaningful in return?

A relationship can’t be built on one person’s effort while the other simply expects to be accommodated.

So the real question is:

What are you actually bringing to the relationship?

Your presence alone?

Is that really supposed to be enough?

And men, would you genuinely choose to marry someone whose expectations far exceed what she’s willing to contribute?

[TheXYGhost @TheXYGhost]

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Divorce laws are nothing but a weapon to financially cripple men, ruin children, and annihilate a family's generational wealth.

TheXYGhost

[TheXYGhost @TheXYGhost]

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Her : Give me your time. Pay me unlimited attention. Love me unconditionally until I betray you when I find a man that has more to offer than you.

TheXYGhost : I think not.

[The Husky @Mr_Husky1]

A woman came home and said:

"A guy at the gym gave me his number today."

"Okay."

"He said if I ever get bored of you, I should call him."

"Alright."

"He also said I could do better."

"..."

"You're not even going to ask if I kept his number?"

"No."

"Why not? Doesn't that bother you?"

"No."

"You're not going to fight for me?"

"Why would I?"

"Because you love me."

"I do love you."

"But I don't compete with other men for a woman who's supposed to be committed to me."

"If another man thinks he has a chance, it's usually because something made him believe he does."

"And if I have to fight for your attention, your loyalty, your time, or your respect, then I've already lost something I shouldn't have to fight for."

"So no, I'm not going to compete."

"If you want him, choose him."

"If what we have means that little to you, then he can have you."

Because the truth is:

A woman who genuinely values her relationship doesn't come home excited about another man's number.

And a man with self-respect doesn't beg to be chosen.

[Marital Hell @HellMarital]

The #lazywife #HomeDecor & #HouseKeeping skills can be best categorized as #WhiteTrailerTrash .

[TheXYGhost @TheXYGhost]

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Her : Where have all the good men gone?

TheXYGhost : Do you think you are entitled to an endless number of men getting down on one knee with a diamond ring in hand, begging you to be your servant?

[Ezennaya🧊 @Chrisslimz]

Unpopular opinion: Women are designed to destroy any man who becomes emotionally attached to them.

[Ken Paris @TunaSafeDolphin]

Exactly.

[TheXYGhost @TheXYGhost]

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She wants a man to fix the life that she broke herself.

TheXYGhost

[Marital Hell @HellMarital]

The #lazywife spends all day sitting around the house in her nightgown watching TV & videos on her phone.

[TheXYGhost @TheXYGhost]

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Her claim that you don't love her reveals her lack of love for you.

TheXYGhost

[TheXYGhost @TheXYGhost]

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Women today act like it's illegal to reprimand them.

TheXYGhost

[TheXYGhost @TheXYGhost]

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Women love playing the victim.

Women love to manipulate others.

Women love to be rescued.

Women love attention of others.

Women love to play the victim in order to manipulate others to rescue them, it gives them the attention they think they need.

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[TheXYGhost @TheXYGhost]

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If she is pressuring you for a commitment, ask her what does she have to offer and watch her head explode.

TheXYGhost

[Offend_no_one @offendnoone]

You pay for the sins of every man who damaged her before you ever met her.

Her father.

Her ex.

Every man who f*cked her up and walked away.

Because the trauma from her suffering overshadows the wisdom from her experience.

The next man inherits damage he never caused.

Women do not improve with use.

They deteriorate.

More scars.

More baggage.

More defenses.

More damage.

Deep down, everybody knows this.

This is why being the first love of a woman raised by a good father is the cleanest romantic position a man can occupy.

This is why traditional cultures valued young, v*rgin brides.

The logic was simple:

Experience does not accumulate without consequence.

Every betrayal leaves distrust.

Every heartbreak leaves defenses.

Every failed attachment leaves residue.

By the time the next man arrives, he isn't meeting her alone.

He is meeting the accumulated weight of every man who came before him.

[Marital Hell @HellMarital]

This is absolutely true. From my personal experience.

[Melanin Queen👑🌹 @onlyone_success]

Most men who try to fix a poorly raised woman end up regretting it.

You cannot change what her family failed to teach her. You cannot repair what was broken before you met her.

She will drain you, frustrate you, and leave you worse than she found you. Do not play the saviour.

[TOP G @menscoach1]

Realities of being a man:

1. Nobody cares until you are rich or dead.

2. You have to provide something, then you get love in return.

3. You are born with no value. You have to build yourself up.

4. Your pain is your problem, you have to deal with it.

5. Nobody respects you unless you are competent.

6. If you are weak, society will crush you.

7. Nobody is coming to save you. Not a woman. Not your friends. Not the system.

8. Your usefulness is how most people measure you.

[The married man @marriedmn]

Marrying a woman from a poor family could be very risky. You don't know whether she really loves you or she just wants you to save her.

Most of them once they get married and empowered they always turn around and become devils.

Very dangerous.