A woman working 40+ hrs a week, paying for her own hair, nails, rent, car, food, gas, handling everything by herself, is not going to be the soft, feminine woman you expect her to be. Andno, she can't bring you peace when she's in survival mode.
on tiktok, a girl moved in with her friend. She stayed 6 months, because she stated that’s all she needed to get everything together.
surprisingly, the friend told her say had to pay $350 a month, instead she gave her $400.
when the friend got ready to move out, she handed her the entire $2400 & told her she never needed the money it was to help her with saving & to go handle her business…. my God 🥹🙏🏽
I was homeless for six months in 2011. I slept in my car. I used to park behind a small church because it was dark and quiet. I thought nobody knew I was there. Every morning, I’d wake up, drive to a gas station to wash my face, and go to work (yes, I had a job, just couldn't afford rent). One night, it was freezing. 10 degrees. My car wouldn't start to run the heater. I was shivering so hard my teeth hurt. I saw the back door of the church open. A janitor came out to dump the trash. He saw my car. He saw me huddled in the front seat. He didn't call the cops. He didn't come over and tap on the window. He just walked back to the door, unlocked it, and propped it open with a small rock. Then he turned on the hallway light and left. I waited ten minutes. Then I ran inside. It was warm. There was a couch in the lobby. There was a bathroom with hot water. I slept there every night for the rest of the winter. Every night, the rock was there. I never met the janitor. I never thanked him. I’m back on my feet now. I have a house. I have a bed. But every year on the first snow, I donate a check to that church. I write "For the heating bill" in the memo line. Sometimes the loudest way to love your neighbor is to say nothing at all.
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Nada me va a hacer nunca cambiar de opinión sobre que el transactivismo es misoginia y las adolescentes que se han visto seducidas por él, renunciaron a ser mujeres en base al odio interiorizado hacia sí mismas y sus cuerpos.
Everyone is starting to notice non Americans only Question Black Americans origins
But they never question the actual immigrants
A Nigerian will accept a Jamaican is from Jamaica and won’t ask any further question
But they won’t accept a Black American is American
Just a reminder: White people will never be victims of racism. If you’re failing at life and upset because a POC is doing better than you…it’s a personal failure you’re projecting! You’re not oppressed…that’s just you being mediocre with privilege. Good day!
You don’t get to erase our identity the female identity just because you are confused about yours . This whole conversation is so disrespectful to women . Stop invading OUR space . We had
To fight for women’s rights and we didn’t do that for a man in a dress to come along and set us back . Find your own place in society, but you will not take ours .