Petroleum Engineer | NYSC @ Thompson & Grace | Skilled in Drilling, Flow Assurance & Production | Open to Graduate Trainee & Global Oil & Gas Opportunities
Hi, I’m Henry 👋🏽, a Petroleum Engineer passionate about Drilling, Flow Assurance, Reservoir & Production Engineering.Currently serving with Thompson & Grace (NYSC, July 2025–2026) where I’m gaining industry experience. I’m actively preparing and open to Graduate trainee programs
THINGS I WON'T DO AS A WIFE !!
• I won't gossip about my husband to friends or family.
What happens between us stays between us.
• I won't abuse him verbally, emotionally, or physically. Respect flows both ways.
• I won't emasculate him in public or private. Building him up is part of building us up.
• I won't weaponize intimacy. Withholding affection as punishment isn't love, it's manipulation.
• I won't compare him to other men. Your ex, my ex, or the highlight reel on social media.
• I won't air our dirty laundry on social media. Our problems don't need an audience.
• I won't disrespect him in front of our children. Unity in parenting is non-negotiable.
• I won't nag him into resentment. I'll communicate clearly, then trust him to step up.
• I won't dismiss his feelings just because they're expressed differently than mine.
• I won't use his vulnerabilities against him during arguments. Trust isn't a weapon.
• I won't make him choose between me and his family unless there's genuine harm involved.{We don't pray for that}.
• I won't keep score of who did what. Marriage isn't a competition.
• I won't stop being the woman he fell in love with just because I got the ring.
•I won't ignore his love language while demanding he speak mine fluently.
• I won't make unilateral decisions about our life and expect him to just go along with it.
Above all, I will continue to be his best girl 💜.
HOW TO PUT PAYMENT NARRATION IN YOUR BANK TRANSFER IN 2026
Tax is mainly focused on taxable income and this taxable income is basically money paid to you in exchange for a particular service
So if you refuse to put the right payment narration, you may face some problems or even pay more, when filing your T A X Return
If you describe the payment narration correctly, you only pay tax when required... and nothing extra.
SIMPLE DESCRIPTIONS YOU CAN USE (LEGALLY)
1. When a Family member sends you money, they should write
"Gift / Family support" in the payment narration
2. When a Friend or anyone pays you back the money they owe you, tell them to write:
"Refund / Reimbursement"
3. When you move your own money to another account, write:
"Personal transfer/savings."
4. When someone lends you money, he or she should write:
"Loan received"
5. If you put your own money into a business, write:
"Capital contribution"
6. If you operate a POS and your customers want to make a transfer to you
They should write
POS transaction
7. You are a business owner and you sell things
Your customer should put narration like this
Payment for two cartons of Indomie
To be continued...
Ignorance of the law is no excuse