then decide for themselves what to do. For only when the suffering and pain are on a self-chosen path are they the true and necessary price for success. Otherwise, it is merely suffering and pain because it is not a self-determined path.
I realized that he mentioned it at a Chinese event, possibly to encourage the Chinese audience towards success. He smiled awkwardly because he didn't believe it would work in most cases in China—that one first has the opportunity to explore what they like