back in secondary school I met this senior, got to know one another through basketball and we were hanging out alot after school. One day he happen to ask if I want to shower at his place after practice and well one thing led to another 😗
Back in the bad old days, before ordering the pre-enlistee to pull down his underwear, the MO used to publicly ask, "Are you a homo?"
The policy evolved from "Ask but don't tell" to "Don't ask, don't tell."
Young men these days are so bold that they "Don't ask but tell."