My view on being a positive is different. Positive people aren’t positive because everything is perfect in their life; they’re positive because they don’t allow the things that happen in their lives to control how they experience life
Just remembered when someone called me a flake & then thought I was so hurt by it. Lol I am so proud to be a flake. One thing I'm always going to do what I want, and I'll change my mind at any time for any reason.
Have we really forgiven them if we have to tell the story of forgiving them over and over? How many times do we make someone pay for the same crime through reliving the experience even after we say we have made peace with it? How many times do we replay? The person we need to forgive is often ourselves. We don’t even really remember the way it happened. We tell it over and over again as a way to fight for our limitations and play small as both the victim and victor. What if we just dropped the story and allow the story to be what shaped you up to now to know how and what choices to make and be what you want to be here, now?