i will always be the “you could’ve just told me” kind of person.
not because i enjoy pain, but because i’ve lived long enough to know that the truth, no matter how heavy, is still kinder than being misled. i would rather feel the sting of honesty than spend nights overthinking, replaying conversations, or wondering what i did wrong. i don’t need people to protect me with silence, mixed signals, or carefully crafted lies. i just need people to be real with me
You can’t gaslight a skilled communicator with strong pattern recognition, intuition & discernment. You can’t convince them they’re the problem when you can’t even hold space for an uncomfortable conversation because you’re too self-absorbed to face yourself.
I JUST HEARD SOMEONE SAY, “MAYBE YOU DON’T NEED MORE TIME TO HEAL, MAYBE YOU NEED MORE EXPERIENCES THAT SHOW YOUR NERVOUS SYSTEM A DIFFERENT REALITY,” AND YEAH… IT ECHOED IN ME
Stop getting so emotionally attached and enjoy experiences with a person. Be friends. be a moment in time. Be a memory. You don't have to fall madly in love with everyone who comes your way. Just enjoy their presence for your moment together.
i want to be your second priority. Your first priority should be you - YOUR ambitions, your life, and your future. Stay focused! I want the best for you. Don't let me be a distraction; let me be your motivation, your support, and your partner in growth.